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by: I'm a zeta

This website has become the center of discussion lately at the zeta house. We were told to stop posting on here after things started to get out of hand. I just want to apologize for any behavior that has been offensive to the other ladies of greek town. We are not all bad! We still don't know if it even is a member of our house that is causing all this drama, so please don't think we're all like her! I'm sorry if any members of zeta have hurt you in the past, I think we have improved so much and maybe there was a member or two that felt like they needed greek towns approval and wanted to move up in the ranks. Win we placed in homecoming, I did hear some girls in my house start talking about how we should be taken more seriously. I'm sorry if one of our members thought it was a good idea to "take down KD" to jump them in the ranks. We never meant to hurt KD, we only wanted to be taken more seriously! One girl just took it too far. I think we all regret ever thinking that in order to move up, we would have to put another house down in bottom tier. KD was just an easy target because we thought it was crazy that this was one of the first times they didn't place! Anyways, I apologize to the houses that were caught in the fire. I truly hope that greektown doesn't all hate us. And I really hope whoever the girl is from our chapter that keeps stirring the pot learns to forgive and let go. She is making all of us look really bad, and I promise not all zetas are like her!

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#1  by: help   
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I've been following a few of these threads and I'm curious about something. Do you know which girl in the zeta house is writing these? I mean, you said you didn't but is there a way you can find out? I don't want anyone to take this the wrong way but I think there is an explanation to why this girl may be acting the way she is. Someone mentioned it before in a joking manner but I think they may actually be right. I'm a psychology major and your sister fits the definition of having a disruptive behavioral disorder. Operational Defiant Disorder = "Persistent, negative, defiant and hostile attitude towards others, likes to argue, acts spitefully or vindictively towards others, and blames others for mistakes." If there is some way to identify the member of zeta who started and is keeping the drama going, I think you seriously need to approach her with this. She can get help for this and be able to function better in life. Don't call her out on it though, just try to pull her aside one day and express your concern. You sound like a good sister, and hopefully she will trust you enough to seek help. or offer to go with her for support. I know she will probably reading this too so maybe she will start to realize there may be something really going on with her head and seek the help on her own. You can get better! You just need to be open to the idea of therapy! and mizzou offers a ton of counseling programs too!

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by: oh godDec 14, 2013 11:55:54 AM

shut up ^^ you sound so dumb hahah "i'm a psychology major" hahahaahha im dead

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by: WellDec 14, 2013 12:56:17 PM

There is no way to identify the specific Zeta, or even if the one behind this IS a Zeta. And actually, it's probably multiple people that add fuel to the fire and just egg each other on. I doubt they have an actual disorder, but rather they probably suffer from low self esteem. And yes, this also refers to everyone who obsesses over their hatred for Zeta.

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by: I thinkDec 14, 2013 1:29:45 PM

I think most of us understand that this drama is being perpetuated by just one girl. I personally don't have any animosity towards Zeta, my roommate from freshman year went Zeta and she and I are still very good friends. I think things will die down after the holiday season but I know I appreciated this post and totally understand where you're coming from :)

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#2  by: Zetas be crazy   
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I would feel really bad though if the crazy zeta was mentally ill. Someone needs to help her! But if she's just bored, then she needs to get a life!

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