Pledgeship - Phi Psi
by: NglPhi Psi’s pledgeship sucks as previously mention like Sigs and Acacia. Some of the brothers are D-Bags
Commentby: soMar 16, 2021 9:24:04 PM
Hey, didnt realize this was a real pledge.
Advice from a random guy - consider these things. How bad is it? Are a lot of them dbags or just a few? Do you have some really close friends in the house? Do other guys in your class feel the same way as you do? Where on the scale between goofy pranks and actual abuse is it? You have to weigh all those things and make the decision that is right for you.
You might decide it sucks but you made some great friends and it's worth it to stay long term. That's ok.
You might decide it is really bad and don't feel close to anyone - if you drop you will not be the first guy ever to do so.
If you drop, UofI still has a great bar scene that anyone can enjoy. If you are a freshman you might consider joining a different house next year. The medium and smaller houses tend to have minimal hazing if any, and even if they do it is usually just goofy stuff. Guys in the smaller houses tend to be more low key but still have fun.
Disclosure - I am an older guy in a smaller house, so I am biased. I honestly do think there are a lot of great guys in the bigger houses, but it is a matter of what kind of style fits you. Do what works for you.
You will make the right decision.
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by: @soMar 17, 2021 9:41:02 PM
by: soMar 19, 2021 7:09:26 AM
Yes you can. Easier if you don't initiate.
It happens on a regular basis, frats just try not to encourage it.
We've had a few guys join who dropped other houses, and to be honest we had a couple of guys who dropped us and joined somewhere else. It's all good as long as people wind up where they belong.
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by: HmmMar 17, 2021 2:16:16 PM
by: EhMar 17, 2021 2:32:10 PM
@Hmm....hazing is for insecure douchebags. You feel powerful when you have that temporary power to abuse some poor freshman who could use some support. And then you act like you are brothers. Brothers? Please, you are not even friends.
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by: 24Mar 17, 2021 3:14:35 PM
Going through hardship to get something makes people appreciate being in something so much more. And going through hardship with people (your pledge class) makes you guys bond
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by: Truth Mar 17, 2021 3:41:00 PM
by: BrotherMar 18, 2021 1:11:14 AM
You can bond without hazing. You allowed mental and physical abuse along with humiliation. Line ups were worse this year than with our class.
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by: NglMar 16, 2021 8:59:22 PM
I may drop. Not sure about leadership or being around D-bags.
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