Am I already cut?

I’m registered to go through recruitment and kind of nervous because a few of my friends are already getting invited to hang out with girls in the top house. We knew some of these girls in high school but weren’t super close or anything, so it’s surprising they’re getting invited to stuff now. I’ve only gotten a couple DMs that were just like “hey let me know if you have any questions about UTK”, which felt nice but nothing more. I’m starting to worry that maybe no one really wants me or if I’m already behind. Is this normal or am I just overthinking everything?