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I suicided DZ because my top choice dropped me for reasons unknown, should I accept a bid? Definitely a partier and don't even know if greek life is right for me anymore

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#1  by: you should   
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accept the bid and see if you vibe with your new pledge class and the other girls. I know DZs that go out and are social. Honestly it's better to get the greek life experience even if recruitment wasn't a walk in the park for you. If you hate DZ in a few weeks after giving them a chance, then drop before initiation

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by: ?Jan 24, 2016 9:36:37 PM

I'm just disappointed and didn't even want to rush that much in the first place. There's this voice in the back of my mind that says I should've dropped and tried to get an open bid or informally rushed this fall but it's too late for that now. I'm just conflicted and don't want to waste my time on girls who are, dare I say, lame, and won't want to do anything with me. I want the social life and sisterhood and I don't know if they're really all about that

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by: Re: ?Jan 24, 2016 9:39:47 PM

Do DZ a favor, call your rho gam and say you changed your mind and want to drop out instead. Your attitude sucks.

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by: i meanJan 24, 2016 9:47:53 PM

if you go into any house with that attitude, youre not going to have a good time. You decided to put them on your bid list so go through with it because they may be the perfect fit for you regardless how you view yourself

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#2  by: welp   
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if they give you a bid then I say go for it. Obviously you've been told this a thousand times but 99.9% of the time the process does work.

They definitely have partiers just like every other chapter so if that's your main concern then you shouldn't be worried.

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#3  by: former pnm   
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Look at it this way. They saw something in you that they liked. They think that you will be a great member and representative of their sorority, and that you will fit in well with them. You may not feel that way tonight, but give them a chance. Many girls have started with bids that disappointed them, only to find out after a while that they loved their sisters and their sorority, and that it really did work out for them. Be open for good things to happen for you and your new sisters.

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#4  by: If you   
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Already have this bad of an attitude about them, why even join them. You already don't like them as you clearly stated. Don't waste their time with your negative attitude.

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#5  by: Outsider's perspective    
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Give them a chance and get to know some of them. If you don't click then you can drop. If social events are a big deal to you, then maybe reach out to their social chair. I know there are definitely girls in DZ that like to go out, and that might be the best way to get to know the girls that do.

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by: AgreedJan 26, 2016 11:49:21 AM

I would definitely reach out to the social chair if you're that concerned.

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