pref round

Just a little unsure about how all of this works. I got my houses back yesterday and was cut from my favorite chapter. I had had an amazing conversation with them the day before so I was hurt and confused. But I continued on and went to my remaining houses. When I got to computers that night my favorite house that had cut me was on my list of houses I had to rank, along with the houses I visited that day. I was really confused Becusee when you get cut from a house it doesn't appear in a list with the houses you didn't get cut from. So I ranked the house like I would have if I visited it that day. The next morning when I got my pref round schedule, my favorite house, the one I was told I was cut from, was first on my list. So I was very confused still but happy I got them back. When I got there, I wasn't paired with a girl I made such a good connection with earlier in the week. But the girl I was paired with said I've heard so much about you from my sisters I'm so happy I get the chance to talk to you. But she never said any of the typical stuff like you belong here, I can see you in this chapter, and I hope I see you tomorrow. With the combination of not visiting this chapter the third round due to some glitch, and not being paired with a girl I had been with already, and not hearing the encouraging words that chapters say to girls they give a bid too, what are my chances of receiving a bid from this house?Since it isnt good to be paired w a girl youve never met on pref round