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by: nervousI'm a larger girl about a size 16/18 and not real tall. I've always been really active and have always had a lot of friends. I'm not really an "awkward " person at all. Was a student body officer in high school and relatively "popular" I really want to go through rush and even know some women in sororities at other colleges. My sister is in one at another college. But I'm really nervous to register. Like everyone, rejection can hurt. If a sorority drops me because they don't like me, I can deal with that (I know that we don't all jive). But if people are going to drop me with out even getting to know me, or if I'm going to bring down the group in the eyes of fraternities, then I don't want to join. I'm really torn right now. I want to try, because a feel like I could really grow from the sorority experience, and I feel I have a lot to offer. But I don't want to set myself up for mean girl stuff. Any kind and compassionate suggestions in the next 24 hours would be wonderful.
Comment#13 by: trust me
All the houses have a percentage of Large and in Charge women. I'm not sure the exact percentage but it is enough. Columbia greek system isn't about "face girls." The system is about all the things you mentioned. You will be fine. Don't apologize for your size or who you are. At Columbia most of us embrace diversity. Welcome to the Greek System!
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by: that saidDec 31, 2013 5:07:14 PM
that said, there are some fraternities to avoid. You will figure it out soon enough if you haven't already figured it out. Sadly we have some shallow puddles in our greek system.
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