dirty rush

I will agree with phi mu. I went out with them before we weren't allowed to go to parties and they all were like I can't wait till you're a phi mu and talking about me being one of their littles. I also went shopping with them earlier in the year and one of them bought me a phi mu picture frame.... It was all very strange and uncomfortable. I was flattered but i feel like if I don't go phi mu they will hate me or I will want phi mu and they will cut me.......

I call bull on this!!! Hahaha

Phi Mus from my hometown really pressured me the entire week of recruitment. They told me if I didn't pledge Phi Mu our friendships were over. I went to my favorite house first on pref night, not Phi Mu. This was the house I really loved and my very best friend was a member but the only member from my school. I went to Phi Mu second. All of my hometown friends, 6 of them, put so much pressure on me. They told me they would never speak to me again if I picked the other house and told me complete lies about the other house. I let them get to me and put Phi Mu over the house I really wanted. Sure, I've been happy in Phi Mu but would have been happier in the house with my best, true friend. I added true friend because she left her house on bid day and came to find me at the Phi Mu house and has remained my best friend although I let Phi Mu pressure me into going there. True story whether you believe it or not.

I had a similar experience. I had a lot of close highschool friends go phi mu and so I stayed with them a lot. The girls told me and one of my friends we'd forsure be phi mus. I wasn't that interested in them but my friend was. I choose to go for a top house on bid day but my friend Didn't have that great of a rush and had only phi mu and ADPI left. Phi mu cut her and she was devastated especially after they said she had a for sure spot with them. I also heard some of the girls making fun of her later on for being an ADPI and those same girls have been really catty towards me for picking a different house. Thank god I didn't choose them though

Sorry but both responses are bs! First of all you said You went out with them and then said it was strange? B. S.
Also N o One would say your friendship is over if you pledge somewhere else. If your responses hadn't been sooooo dramatic we might would have believed you. All fake!

Why would it not be strange? I was friends with these girls but not like BEST friends. Now suddenly they are acting like we've been best friends for years and buying me things and pressuring me into pledging their sorority when I haven't even been through rush. It would be very uncomfortable for any one!! I don't know what to say to them. I want to keep my options open and you guys don't understand how intimidating active members are to us pnms. I don't think I was being over dramatic just simply telling what happened

Yes, I was told they would stop being my friends. I have made great friends in Phi Mu but still wonder if I would have been happier in the house with my true friend. Like I said at the end of my post - it's the truth whether you believe me or not.

SO weird that these posts had 25 and 14 up votes with only 1 or 2 down votes for weeks and now within a matter of minutes they suddenly have 26 down votes and 14 down votes!!! SO clever phi mu, you really tricked us this time!!!! I really love all the time you guys dedicate to this site trying to bury your dirty laundry. It's honestly hilarious please keep doing it thinking no one notices.

Sorry I reversed that!!! The post where the girl was saying these stories were BS (which I doubt they were considering I was dirty rushed by them when I was a senior in HS as well) had 20 something down votes and maybe one up vote. Now suddenly the up votes are even. Also the negative post clearly made by a pnm had 14 up votes and no down votes but within minutes it changed to being even. Either way it's pathetic !!!!

No one cares about up or down votes. Don't you have something else to do? You sure spend a lot of time on here!

Haha how can you say that when you just spent your time To down vote something almost 100 times. Do you have nothing better to do?! That's a little obsessive and pathetic phi mu

Omg that IS hilarious. 82 down votes !!! that has to be a Greek rank record for this page. Congrats phi mu you actually are the best at something for once. It might not be grades or involvement or rank but you sure know how to refresh page and downvote a post like nobodies business! You should post that on your accomplishments bulletin during rush!!

Chi o alumna called my mom and said I could be a chi o if I wanted to be one! Said her daughter couldn't wait to be my sister! Whattttt ! That's weird. I barely know this girl and we didn't hang out in high school.

years ago Chi O actively had alums IN their parties to pressure legacies at pref. When Panhellenic changed the rule they started hiding in the bushes and driving up and down the row to find their hometown girls and tell them what to do during rush. My cousin rushed in 2009 and saw them driving and calling out to girls before some Panhellenic Exec girls literally followed them in a golf cart to make them leave.

Okay chi o. We all know y'all like to play dirty more than anyone else

Aren't you a little old to be posting on here then lol ? You're 22 and still posting on gossip sites, that's a little pathetic

Going through rush two years ago makes her a junior and 20 or 21 years old. She is in college and has a right to post on her. I guess gossip sites are only acceptable for 18 and 19 year olds?!

Why did you just hash tag on here lol???

Because I can #areyoustupid

Free beer? reason enough to pledge, for me.

Why dies this have 11 votes up? KD is proud ofvthrirvdrinking habits.

Your post looks like you're the one with the drinking habit. And I'm not a KD.

Perfectly stated

This post makes me not want to rush. Good advice