why is aphi so bad?

I'm not an a phi so this is from an outsiders perspective.


Every sorority is what you make it. You find your niche of friends and make the most of it. However, alpha phi seems to lack a strong sisterhood because every girl that pledges there acts like they have to prove something and lose sight of why they joined a sisterhood in the first place. Also, they post their drama all over social media and at parties with no regard of who's around. My roommate was an alpha phi and never quite felt like she had real friends because like I said, no one really had each other's back. When you're main focus is trying to climb the social totem pole, you tend to lose sight of the reasons you were a sisterhood in the beginning. Other "lower" sororities (and no sorority on the row is a bad sorority, they're all full of amazingly qualified individuals) tend to be known for their amazing sisterhoods because they don't care that they're at the bottom and aren't stomping around on each other trying to declare themselves better.

But like I said, I'm just an active of a different sorority.

If you took all of the sororities here and placed them at a different school APhi would probably be at the top. They're really pretty and a lot of fun but just a little too wild for Alabama's tastes.

you've dated an Alpha Phi

Alpha Phi has a lot of really pretty girls but they're definitely known as the wild, kind of "loose" girls at Alabama, whether or not that's true. They're also low on grades.

Alabama just takes it's sorority life much more seriously than many other schools, even in the South. I think Alpha Phi can be ridiculous, but they're really just getting a lot of flak for operating like a Western or Northern sorority when they're at a school in the South.