pref night

I was a rho gamma last year and we told the girls this too...they aren't stupid

I agree with this post so much, it's so annoying when girls lie because they think that it helps them when it doesn't

DO NOT PUT A HOUSE THAT YOU WILL REFUSE A BID TO ON YOUR BID CARD! It just deprives another girl of a bid they would have wanted and does nothing to improve your chances of getting a bid to your higher ranked choices.

Stress this enough! If you have no intentions of pledging a sorority, do not put them on your bid card. It can make you ineligible for COR (for a year) if you are extended a bid to a house and you don't accept it.

That said, Go to pref night even if you aren't sure about a house or the only house you have left. Go in with an open heart. It might surprise you.

So you are saying that after only one week you can definitively say that you would not find sisterhood in your other two houses?! That's coconuts. There are 200 members in the houses - I can assure you that there are all types of people in every house. EVERY chapter is a sisterhood and EVERY sorority member has a very similar experience. The biggest differences in the sororities are their mascots, colors, and philanthropies. Other that that - its all the same.

Sorority life is what YOU make of it. YOU choose to have a life changing experience or not. I can also assure you that if you decline your bid from a house that WANTS you, you will not have any better luck next year. The house that you wanted and DIDN'T want you will not miraculously come around. Think about that before turning down the biggest honor you have experienced in your life (getting a bid from a great sorority).

That hurts. I don't think I'm spoiled. I was just responded to OP. This is all so confusing. So I guess what y'all are saying is that we really should not be honest.

And I guess "They won't be mad. I promise!" Isn't exactly correct. Obviously from these posts, they would've been mad. Truly I didn't mean to upset anyone. This is very upsetting and confusing to me. I have so many people telling me different things. The other 2 houses are lovely but I have people telling me to go through next year and I might could get my first I choice if I don't today. I'm sorry. It's hard to make decisions being so emotional. I didn't mean to be rude. Truly.

And I guess "They won't be mad. I promise!" Isn't exactly correct. Obviously from these posts, they would've been mad. Truly I didn't mean to upset anyone. This is very upsetting and confusing to me. I have so many people telling me different things. The other 2 houses are lovely but I have people telling me to go through next year and I might could get my first I choice if I don't today. I'm sorry. It's hard to make decisions being so emotional. I didn't mean to be rude. Truly.

You clearly can't please everyone here so be true to yourself and do what makes you happy. If you want to be in a sorority though really think hard about what will be different next year and why you think it might go differently. Also, it's great to be somewhere you are really wanted and it is sound advice that in houses with that many girls you will definitely find girls you love. Good luck.

You clearly can't please everyone here so be true to yourself and do what makes you happy. If you want to be in a sorority though really think hard about what will be different next year and why you think it might go differently. Also, it's great to be somewhere you are really wanted and it is sound advice that in houses with that many girls you will definitely find girls you love. Good luck. You were not at all rude by the way. You were responding to the topic and the rude people attacked you. You insulted no one, they insulted you. Their bad