PNMs listen up

I rushed two years ago at A&M and dropped because the houses left on my list were what I considered to be "bottom houses". In high school I was popular, had all the material things and Instagram that I thought would land me a "top house". A couple months later I was desperate and COBd a house that I hadn't considered joining during rush and it completely changed my perspective. I had never felt more wanted and genuinely just felt like I was in the right place. Once you are in a sorority it doesn't matter what they are "ranked" or which frats they associate with. Each and every sorority has amazing girls and there is a place where you will find your people. Sometimes we find our people where we least expect them and gain the most amazing sisterhoods. Rush can be hurtful, but it doesn't define your worth, see it through!! Because I could have found my sisterhood earlier if I hadn't been so caught up in this website!!