Dear PNM:

the reality is a lot of pnms go into rush with preconceived notions about houses...which a lot of times are not even true...it really is "who you know"....I know girls in GR "top tier" houses that didn't even have a good resume but still got in over a girl with a great resume who ended up in another house BUT LOVES IT! sooo try not to take it personally...haven't you ever heard of someone getting a job over someone who is more qualified??? it happens all the time!!! things have a weird way of working out for the best!!! trust the process!!!