Please please please help

if they didn’t like you the first time they probably won’t give you a cob, stick it out until pref every sorority here is great with great women, no one cares about tiers after rush all srats still go to frat parties and have fun

Honestly, if they dropped you after open house, you would need to do a lot of let work this year to go back through rush as a sophomore and have a better outcome. That would require at least a 3.6+ GPA, being involved on campus (FLO’s, Fish Camp counselor, etc) and really making friends with a ton of actives who can pull for you next year. Only you know if you have it in you to pull that off.

Not all houses are even eligible for COB. If they have too many members, they can’t COB.

Chances are the houses you have left are the ones who would be doing COB this year.

The good news - FOUR houses are interested in getting to know you better! Read the posts on here, many PNM’s have only 1 or 2. Chapters that you still have cut tons of girls!

Every house has something amazing to offer as far as big /little, sisterhood, fun social social events, and tons of diverse women to get to know. You’ll find your tribe in ANY house if you try to be a good friend.

On philanthropy- many people don’t have a personal connection to their philanthropy. The house with the one I do have a connection with is a house I wouldn’t have fit in.

Sisterhood and Pref are where you really get to know the chapters so I encourage you to give them a chance! They’re giving you one.