snap bid or cob

Forget about snap bids. They rarely happen and there is literally zero chance that a chapter who already cut you would magically give you a bid if they fail to make quota.

COB - if you have Pref invitations to chapters you’re “not connecting” with, the chances are those are the same exact chapters who will be eligible for COB. So why don’t you give them a chance and really make an effort to make friends with the 80-ish girls in your pledge class? If you can’t find any friends in a pledge class, the problem, my dear, is your attitude.

I know it sucks to not have rush go the way you wanted but it’s time to put your big girl pants on and realize every pnm is beautiful, smart & accomplished. Every single chapter made cuts this week and you are lucky to have Pref invitations. So go, and enter sorority life with an open mind and willingness to be a good friend & involved sister in your new house.

Look at other aspects of the chapter - remember that you'll be able to find friends no matter which house you end up in. Look at it beyond your 4 years in college. Which philanthropy do you want to be involved in for a lifetime? Which chapter motto speaks to your heart?

This is great advice