Effect of zoom rush

Yep. I can vividly remember the feeling of walking into DG, zeta and tridelt. There was something that very obviously set them apart and as I left I knew “those are top houses” I didn’t feel it in other houses even when I had better convos in other houses.

In the end it’s the relationships and connections that are built that matter. I think it’s great because you can have meaningful conversations and actually hear the girls. Decorations go up and come down. Would you not go to a friends house or be their friend if you didn’t like the way they decorated their personal space?

Unfortunately I think there is a disadvantage of not getting to experience what you’re talking about. For me, my final few houses were basically indistinguishable in terms of conversation. I remember I had zeta, tridelt, theta, DG and kappa as my “final 5” in my head. And I tried really really hard to pref based on conversation but it was nearly impossible. All the convos were great and none really stood out over the other. What did stand out was the “vibe” you’re talking about. And it wasn’t necessarily that I knew one house was better than the other, but I could see what they were like. I could see who cared the most about decorations, who got the most dressed up, who chanted the loudest, who looked most interested when there was a presentation, etc. I was easily able to decide who I fit in with most based off of factors that had nothing to do with conversation.