rush week

Hmm. Tough question. Part of the answer is "the one that invites you back" and the other part of the answer is "you may not know 100%". Just stick with the entire week and try to be yourself. If you make it to pref, look at those around you - those could be your pledge class.

don't be discouraged if you are not invited back to a sorority you "thought" you wanted. Give every house a chance. And if you get a bid, it takes some time to find close friendships. It's not Instant BFF's, trust the process.

Sometimes you just click with the girls that you meet, everything feels like “home” and you get a bid.

Other times, you’re still unsure even as you sign your Bid card, but you have to trust that the house knows their sisterhood well and sees you being a perfect new addition.

Whether your week goes the first way or the latter, KNOW that you can feel unsure on Bid Day or like you’re running to your new BFF’s and still have a fabulous sorority life by the time you graduate. There have been girls who cried on Bid Day that ended up being rush chair or President.

Trust the system.

Often, we’ll get stuck loving a house or come in with an idea of what we want. Just remember, if a sorority invites you back that means they see something in you and see you as a part of their sisterhood. If it wasn’t on your radar at the beginning, take another look. Just be open minded. Trust your gut. You can literally ask a sorority why you should be there or what sets them apart and they’ll be able to tell you.

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