why does everyone rank adpi so badly?

Why would a family friend be asking you, one who sounds like you're still in HS about Her sorority at either her school or another? that's like hiring someone who just finished ACCT101 to do your taxes. Doesn't make any sense since you're not even part of the Greek scene. Seems like trolling to me.

For whatever reason, the chapter at TAMU has just not been able to get it together. Which is crazy, because they are a great sorority nationally. But even with a good name, sometimes things just don't work out. That does not mean that they don't have a good sisterhood. If anything, the ADPi girls really care for each other and their house. It's almost like the strikes against them have made them tighter. You may not see yourself there, but you really won't know where you'll fit until you go through recruitment.

The reality is that there will always be sororites that are very desired on campus and others not so much. ADPi just happens to be considered pretty much the least desired by PNMs. There is nothing wrong with them though. They have sweet, pretty girls like every house has but tends to also attract girls who may not have any sorority connections or those who are a bit socially awkward. Once AOPi comes on campus, they will probably take the place of ADPi. Especially since they probably won't have a house immediately. How it shakes out after they get a house, who knows.