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I LOVED pi phi yesterday and aopi! Is it bad that I already feel like aopi is the house i want to be in??? I really really want it

Trust me, the bad thing would be if you didn't go with your gut and where you felt at home and regretted it later.

AOPi and Pi Phi are great houses. I have friends in both and I love them.

No it's not a bad thing to already love a house! If you truly feel like you belong there then that's a good thing!

Don't be ashamed. Philanthropy round was when I fell for my house too.

It makes me so happy that you have already found your home sweet home! Even if it's not my house, this makes me so happy for you!!

Go with your gut! Let them know how you feel! At my house when a girl said "please invite me to skit round, I love you guys" I told my sisters and we're going to invite her back because we love her too! If you have let this out a little bit, actives will catch it. Trust me, it's what we all do! And I'm sure if you're this in love with the house, they love you back! You might have girls fighting over whose going to be your Bid Day buddy!

AOPi is an amazing house and you should follow your heart! Four years is a long time when you're miserable in a different house!!

There are two rules every PNM needs to follow during recruitment.

1) Trust yourself. No one knows you better than yourself and therefore no one knows what you're looking for in a house better than you do. No one else has the same outlook and opinions as you and therefore you should always, always, always trust yourself and your opinion and your gut first and foremost. Rank your houses that way because if you put too much stock into what other people are saying you might end up making decisions that are not true to who you are and regret making them later. Always trust yourself and your gut to know what's best for you.

2) If #1 doesn't work out, trust the process. If you end up getting cut from your favorite house, trust that the process works, that you ended up in the house that wanted you and whose sisters are excited to share with you their bonds of sisterhood as well as their social and philanthropic activities.

If you do those two things, you will end up happy. All the houses at Ole Miss are great, but you are you so go with your gut. Don't listen to what other people are doing. You do you.