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You just never know. KD invited me spring partie with then, during orientation to an exclusive party where I met advisors and everyone of the rush team. I also met many other pnm's.

I was cut after skit. I don't think I will ever get over the rejection. It seemed like the actives really liked me. They emailed me all summer. Alumni advisors did the same thing!

After they dropped me, I never heard from another one of them again.

Be careful of KD!

Same exact thing happened to me. Expect I got over it, my current house and KD were my fav two houses during rush, so i'm perfectly happy where I am at. Especially after my friends who went KD told me that the same older girls that rushed them to death don't ever talk to them.

To the PNM, honestly it's all just a show and most PNMs from the south are figuring it out and KD's recruiting techniques aren't working the same way they used to, but if you MUST be a KD, then good luck to you.

Went to multiple parties with KDs, knew a lot of the girls, and I have hung out with them before rush (not during silent week of course) but I got cut after Greek Day. They will pretend to be your BFF but when they drop you, you are nothing to them any more. That's just how they are sometimes.
With KD, you really don't know. You might be totally in but they are known for dirty rushing girls hard. Half of my PC had the same experience that I had.

^This is why we hate KD.

I was not dropped from a single house that had rushed me before rush week besides KD. For my house, we do contact and invite girls to do things but that's only if we know we are interested in them. Why would we waste our time on girls we don't want, when there is plenty that we do? Every other house thinks like this except KD.

Houses like XO, DG, phi mu, and tri delt rush hard but they don't rush dirty. Rushing hard just means they go after the girls they want, but they don't do the "unethical" things that KD does. Meaning they don't make promises to pnms such as "KD would love to have you" and "you for sure have a spot in KD". These promises were made to me by multiple KD freshamn last year. I wa cut after skit round and was told it was due to my GPA, which is clearly not true. Now that I am in a sorority, I know it's wrong to make promises to pnms. You can't say "KD or XO or KKG" would love for you to pledge us

"Over rushes" meaning they rush lots of girls very hard in order to have a good rush. They can't offer all these girls bids but still make the pnms feel like they'll get a bid. Feelings get hurt but its life

Rushing someone hard is basically an active hanging out with the PNM before rush. Maybe having the PNM over to her apartment or even they went to high school together.
But the difference between dirty rushing and rushing hard is that we don't say "ABC is perfect for you" or "ABC really wants you" like dirty rushers do. It is really hard not to say those things when you really want a PNM in your sorority.
BUT. KD dirty rushed way too many girls. Yes feelings always get hurt during rush and you end up where you're supposed to end up, but KD really needs to stop doing this to PNMs because they won't have a lot of respect from other houses soon. I admit, we all really want our friend to be in our house and we kinda slip out "JOIN US! WE LOVE YOU!" but it's not fair to the PNM.