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by: RusheeSep 20, 2014 9:22:02 PM

I was a double legacy phi mu and was cut after the 2nd round. The Greek system at ole miss doesn't understand what kind of hurt that puts on a family when a double legacy is cut. My mother is hurt, my grandmother is hurt as am I. The Greek system should seriously look at the person instead of grades or test scores. Take the fun and exciting people who want to do good in the chapter and bring out leadership!! No one should drop double legacies. Give the legacies a chance. THERES A REASON WHY ITS CALLED LEGACIES. SO THAT IT CAN BE HANDED DOWN TO GENERATIONS

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#1 by: No Sep 20, 2014 9:30:03 PM

Just because you are a legacy does not mean that you are perfect for their chapter. There are lots of girls that might not be legacies that will find their home at phi mu or any other house for that matter that will fit in so well. You end up where you are supposed to be.

By: NoSep 20, 2014 9:30:03 PM

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#2 by: SORRY Sep 20, 2014 9:42:21 PM

I am so sorry that rush did not go as you expected and trust me there were legacies cut from every chapter and I know the hurt runs deep! Hope you will give whatever house you get a bid from a chance-this is your chance to start a new legacy! Hope tomorrow will be a fun day for you and you find happiness in your new home!

By: SORRYSep 20, 2014 9:42:21 PM

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#3 by: Rushee Sep 20, 2014 9:52:26 PM

I am going to a different house tomorrow and I'm more than excited. So it happened for a good reason!

By: RusheeSep 20, 2014 9:52:26 PM

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by: GoodSep 20, 2014 11:17:19 PM

Have fun tomorrow! New beginnings.

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by: HappySep 21, 2014 9:18:55 AM

Very happy for you!

By: HappySep 21, 2014 9:18:55 AM

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#4 by: Well Sep 20, 2014 9:59:31 PM

You brought up grades which leads me to presume yours weren't up to par. If you had a good GPA and were a double legacy, you'd have something to complain about. (imo) The greek system didn't let your mother down or your grandmother, your grades did apparently.

By: WellSep 20, 2014 9:59:31 PM

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#5 by: Legacy Sep 20, 2014 10:33:27 PM

I was a triple DG legacy and was cut last year. I ended up in a house that was way better for me and have never looked back. Yes my mom and grandmother and aunts and great aunts and cousins were all upset, but they were happy that I found my home where I fit.

By: LegacySep 20, 2014 10:33:27 PM

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#6 by: sorry Sep 20, 2014 10:40:17 PM

Sorry to disappoint you, but YOU don't get to tell sororities what their membership policies should be. It was extremely clear from the very beginning that grades are one of the most important parts of your resume. No grades may mean no bid. I hope you do get a bid somewhere on Sunday and that you are happy there.

By: sorrySep 20, 2014 10:40:17 PM

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#7 by: honestly Sep 20, 2014 11:15:04 PM

Sororities do look at personalities! I'm sorry you're not getting the house you wanted, but as a legacy who was cut from chi o last year...it does get better. I love my sisters!

By: honestlySep 20, 2014 11:15:04 PM