in love with a house

The sad thing is that some houses don't even take a second look at girls that have a bigger/chapter legacy. They just assume you will go there. I said SOME so don't automatically assume that you will get cut from another house. It's a difficult situation but you basically just have to flat out tell them! Just make sure you do not come off rude or snotty because that'll definitely make them rethink it. But for sure tell them that you are really hoping to get invited back to pref because you really love the house! Best of luck!