do yo own thing!!!

Ladies!!! Rush is super stressful, I know having been through it already and being a sorority active already! I want all of you to know that you are loved and appreciated and important to people in your life!!! Just because you were dropped from a house you love doesn’t mean they didn’t like you or thought you were “weird”! Actives know their chapters better than anyone and they have to make very difficult choices and have very heated discussions about the new members they want in their next pledge classes!!! Please just trust the process because it will lead you home!!! Also please PLEASE don’t choose a house because of your friends’ opinions!! If you felt comfortable and loved, trust it! Your experiences and the girls you talked to could have been much different than their’s! Every chapter has every type of personality you can imagine so you can’t make a wrong decision - you will find your lifelong friends in whatever chapter you join!!!!

Long story short — do your own thing!! Trust your gut and your conversations!! You know you best so you know what you want and where you feel most comfortable best!! Happy rush ladies