this isn't everything

Wherever you ladies end up - it's not everything that matters and not the end of the world. If you get the house you wasn't, great. Work hard to honor your letters and raise money for your philanthropy. Be nice and be gracious. No one outside of MS really cares anyway. If you don't get the house you want, then make the best of where you are. There are cool girls and potential Maids of Honor in every house. Likewise there are rude snotty girls and girls with bad reps. Who cares. Enjoy and know that you are not defined by the letters you wear but the attitude and behavior you exhibit. Good luck.