scared of college

Is greek life really intense? I want to join a sisterhood to meet amazing girls from all over this country. A KD from my hometown was talking about her friends birthday party and how they hired prostitutes. This same girl was hazed her freshman year. Are all sororities like this? Should I even rush? or should I go to another school. I am so nervous. I just want genuine sisterhood to be apart of. <no negative comments please> Just tips on what I should do.