Sorority Advice 2025

The best thing I ever did for myself during recruitment was to not listen to any gossip or negative talk. Remember the girls are competitive and are trying to get you to choose their chapter so take what they say with a grain of salt. Everyone has their own opinions. Think about what matters to YOU. Meet the girls and form your own opinions.

Many girls go into recruitment thinking they want to join a top tier chapter. I have friends in top, mid and lower chapters and I can tell you none of that matters. Yes there are differences but the reality is that the sororities here are more similar than they are different. It’s normal to go in with favorites, we all do. Just make sure you have an open mind and are realistic. Top tier chapters are very competitive and drop many girls early on. They also take a lot of friends of active girls. It’s disappointing to be cut but remember you want to be a part of a chapter that wants you.

There are beautiful and amazing girls in all the tiers. All have socials and fun events. Make sure you choose a sorority for the right reasons or you may end up where you don’t fit in. Some girls pick a top chapter and find their home. Some pick a top chapter for status and end up feeling out of place so they drop. Some choose a mid chapter over a top because genuinely connect with the girls. Some choose a base and love it. Be true to yourself and follow your heart. Go where you vibe.

The most important things to consider are personalities and sisterhood. Which sorority will embrace you? Which chapter will help you grow as a person and has members that you think will truly support you as a friend?

Don’t stress, trust the process. It’s a lot but you can relax and look forward to running home to your lifelong sisters.
Pan love.