i’m over it
by: pnmwhich is worse being in a bottom tier strat or not being in one at all??
Comment#2 by: Why
Just because they are a bottom house does not mean anything. If you like the girls in it you should stay. If you had good conversations you should stay. You shouldn’t rush the tier system, you should rush the people and philanthropy that speak to you. It doesn’t matter the tier of your house if you don’t fit in you will be unhappy. So go where the people are the best to you — not just where you think is cool. Being somewhere you feel you belong is more important than the tier system. Take it from someone who went top and doesn’t fit in.
by: pnm Aug 22, 2019 6:47:54 AM
i just don’t feel comfortable in the houses i have left all my friends are rushing too and i’ll feel so left out if i drop and they all get bids but at the same time i don’t think i can do this anymore
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by: lolAug 22, 2019 8:39:46 PM
i second this!! i’m in a top and don’t fit in here because i chose this chapter based on tiers rather than what my heart wanted.
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#3 by: Another pnm
How much do you want to be in a sorority. I rushed last year and quit after I was left with only two bottom tier houses. That semester I immediately made friends with girls who pledged one of the houses I rejected. Now I’m rushing and hoping I get into that house. I wish I’d just stayed. They were nice. I was too worried about what others thought.
by: GdrAug 22, 2019 6:58:26 AM
How do you know you like adpi? Besides, who knows if they will be able to rush in the spring anyways?
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by: yoAug 22, 2019 7:50:02 AM
Just because you accept the bid, that doesn’t mean you can’t rush next year if you end up dropping. The only way you wouldn’t be able to rush again is if you get initiated into the sorority you get a bid from before you drop. Accept whatever bid you receive and at least test it out. If you don't like it then drop before initiation and rush again next year.
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#5 by: A sister
There’s really nothing wrong with being in a bottom tier sorority, all of the sororities do the same type of events, if you’re rushing to get a higher status when it comes to impressing and getting guys that could be for the wrong reason. You should finish the week and run home to wherever you got a bid from and if you end up hating it drop before you get initiated , who knows if adpi will even recruit for sure in the spring, what makes you think you’ll definitely get a bid?
by: HeyAug 22, 2019 8:44:17 AM
That is very doubtful Adpi so don’t give pnm’s false hope!! You know you will most likely be suspended all year!
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by: UmmmAug 22, 2019 8:53:09 AM
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by: pnm Aug 22, 2019 6:48:27 AM
i’m a sophomore so it’s very unlikely i’ll get a bid next year
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