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first invite was rough :/

by: pnm

only got called back to 5 for first invite and ngl it sucks because I didn't even meet any people before..I know this year is different but it crushes your self esteem lmao

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#1  by: h   
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it’s soul crushing every year

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#2  by: Be positive   
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Don’t get down on yourself!! I was in your same shoes during recruitment, however you have to remember that those chapters that did invite you back saw something that connects with the sisters or interests of the chapter.

I tend to over-analyze, but was reminded by my Gamma Chi, that each party is a new opportunity. Don’t let one not-so-hot conversation get you down. Remember this is your recruitment, be open to the process and your personality and interests will shine through! No one needs to know how many, which chapters, or why you made the selections you did. Trust yourself and have fun. You got this!

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#3  by: Five   
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I feel the same way-would have cool to have a 30 second zoom with each house.

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by: YepSep 7, 2020 3:51:05 PM

Yeah - they definitely should have let everyone have a short call with every house for the Open House stage. Some girls got really short-changed on First Invite!

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#4  by: Active   
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We would have loved to do that too! Please give that feedback to your Gamma Chi and PHC.

All we can do is make recruitment better for women to come (let’s all hope we can go back to “normal” in-person recruitment as early as next fall)!

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