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some important tips for pnms...

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1. REMEMBER that the ultimate goal is to find a sisterhood. FOR YOU. Rankings and "tiers" are childish. Rankings and tiers won't give you future bridesmaids and lifelong friends. They won't provide you the women that will be there for you on your worst days as well as your best. When you take away the shimmer and hype of recruitment, what's left are the people. They matter more than gossip and rumors and silly college social hierarchies.

2. Keep careful notes of your experiences, as someone else suggested! It'll help you keep track of everything, especially when pref rolls around...

3. Be a good listener. Try not to dominate the conversations, and ask questions! People love to talk about themselves. ;) Of course, ideally things should flow and feel natural, but if they don't, don't write off the entire chapter.

4. PLEASE please please please don't be ever rude to the sisters. It happens every semester without fail. The sisters are nervous too. Be polite and gracious, even if you think this chapter isn't for you. They will appreciate it more than you can imagine.

5. ASK QUESTIONS. Show interest! If you're excited to be there, say so. You don't have to be overenthusiastic, but demonstrate your interest in them by asking about their events, sisterhood, philanthropy, etc.

6. DON'T GIVE UP. Seriously. You will get cut. It's going to hurt. It happens to everyone. You are strong, you can do it! Remember the end goal is not to go XYZ, it's to be Greek. That is invaluable.

Posted By: Strawberry
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Agree woth all of this.

Also on anslight side note: make sure your fb profile pic is cute bc we have girls fb stalking you so we can remember what you look like bc it is impossible to remember the names of 40 girls you talked to for 5 minutes

By: Yes!
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I agree with all of the above

Also, do not be upset if you dont get asked back to 8 houses tomorrow. Do not take it personally. If they cut you it is. Simply bc they dont think you would fit into their house. It isnt an attack on you. You want to be in the place that is best for you

And dont complain if you get a sorority you didnt clique with during 11 rounds. They asked you back to get to know you better so stat positive bc it will work out if you put in the effort

Juniors: you will be asked back to the fewest number of houses. Some houses are not taking juniors at all while others are only taking ones that they literally fell in love with so if you didnt have a great convo then that is all. It isnt bc they dont like you

You guys are all awesome! Keep being positive and we will see you at 8 rounds

PanhelLove

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what sororities aren't taking juniors? ^^

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