Adpi legacy but I really like axo and sk

All are awesome sororities it just depends what you are looking for! I was a legacy three time over and I ended up where I was a legacy. However I went in with an open mind and liked it best. It is just nice to have that connection with your family but you should choose where you love best and I’m sure your family will be happy for you.

Do whatever your heart wants and adpis recent pledge class sucks anyway

Don’t listen to all these people. Go where you feel at home. It’s not a big deal to choose the house where you aren’t a legacy, people do that all the time.

Hi, I hope this helps please take it with a grain of salt. This is just my experience joining a chapter as a legacy. When I rushed I joined my family’s legacy chapter, even though I connected way more with other girls in the other chapter I preferred, I wanted to join this one because of my family and honestly the reputation of the sorority. I hated my time, I felt like I was an outcast and that i didn’t have any friends. I didn’t connect with the girls as I did in the other chapter I had preferred, and felt I made a huge mistake. Even though I eventually found my group in this sorority I still really regret not following my gut and trying to “please” my family. Don’t let the legacy thing dictate which chapter you choose, if you connect with different girls and feel at home there go with those chapters. When I expressed this to my mom and sisters they were mad that I didn’t follow my instinct and chose based off what “I thought was the right thing to do and not the best thing to do.” They wanted to see me happy and not miserable. Make that choice for yourself I’m not saying you’d be miserable in one over the other but don’t sweat the legacy thing. A lot of chapters will typically have the chapter legacy talking to the best people in order to recruit them in. Not saying that is adpi but from my experience in my chapter I know it exists. All 3 of those chapters you have listed are really similar in tier and ranking, one is not better than the other. Just trust your gut and go with the two that you feel yourself with. Not someone who you’re trying to be. Hope that helps alittle bit, no hate on any of those chapters.

I’m an adpi, but PLEASE follow your heart! The last thing you want to do is join and regret it. We want YOU to be happy!

I was in the same situation two years ago. my mom and grandma were in the same chapter and i wanted to be there so bad but my heart wasnt in it and i went where i was supposed to be based on my heart. i encourage you to do the same <3

Also im not in axo but they are an awesome sorority dont let other ppl sway you

Go axo or sk they're both great chapters

Hi girl! I was a double legacy for Tri Delt and felt the same way with pressures of my family and liking other chapters. I stuck with it until pref and their ceremony really changed my mind. You dk but preference rounds are so different from normal rounds but like others said, really go with your heart and trust the process. Talk to your RG about it too!

Honestly, AXO, SK, Adpi and Zeta are all great chapters. Go where you feel like you fit in the best. Those knocking down other sororities need a life!