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pnms dont be scared!!!!

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ik a lot of pnms are stressed bc there r posts talking ab how little girls are going to get a bid this year, but i can promise you if you stick it out until the end of rush and don't SIP, you WILL get a bid. the number of girls rushing is really high, but you also have to consider the amount of girls rushing just to meet ppl and have no intention of accepting a bid and the amt of girls that drop because of financial concerns, not liking any of the houses they have left, or the girls that decide greek life just isn't for them. i have never heard of anyone that didn't SIP getting a call on bid day letting them know that they didn't get a bid. if you just trust the process and go in open-minded about all houses, you will get to run home on bid day! i dropped in the fall because the two houses i really wanted dropped me, and i was so devastated and disappointed in myself for not following through on bid day. i ended up cobing a house that was not in my original "top two" and ive never been happier and i love it so much!! don't let your preconceived ideas on the houses ruin recruitment for you, there are great girls in all houses and you will have the most amazing experience no matter where you end up. panhel love!!!!!

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adding on to this - there r also a good amount of girls that accidentally miss a datebook or forget to rank their houses during the voting period (which automatically drops you from the recruitment process). ik this is also scary and so so sad, but a lot of girls i know that accidentally did this also ended up cobing in the spring or are rerushing this fall! just adding this to put into perspective why big rush numbers are not something to be worried about.

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by: datebooksJul 29, 2025 11:56:18 AM

this happened to me. i had an academic advising session during a datebook and missed it so i was automatically dropped by that house. the house later reached out to me after i already accepted a bid somewhere else.

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by: This!Jul 29, 2025 11:58:49 AM

It’s actually not that uncommon for girls to sleep through parties or rankings (especially when rankings are sometimes done at like 1 AM!)

Read your schedule closely. Set multiple alarms. You will get dropped if you miss a party or ranking submission.

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