Focus on yourselves before looking elsewhere

I’m just about tired of seeing all of the posts digging on the top sororities. You all claim the “top 5” are no longer and there have been switch in the ranks... but where is this claim based, because I feel all of the sororities have been consistent over the years? Not in involvement (all sororities seem to be equally involved to me), not in grades (grades have stayed the same for around 10 years), not in affiliation (same sororities hang out with same fraternities as 10 years ago), and my BIGGEST ANNOYANCE looks.

If you want your sorority to be top, that means it must have an accumulation of all the above. But most importantly it needs girls that share a love for one another and a love for their organization. The nasty and mean comments about whose pledge class is hotter/uglier reflects back poorly on what kind of girl you are. I know this website is anonymous but I could probably read through and correctly guess what organization you pledged.

Be kind. Stop looking to bring others down when all you have to do is work on bringing yourself up. I am not taking up for the girls in the “top 5” but I am shaming those who are obviously obsessed with bringing them down.