to all the houses that dropped me

Honestly if you didn't get a bid at ANY house and were willing to join ANY house then you probably have an awful personality or something. You cannot tell me that Aopi at OSU is picky.

should look into zeta you have a lot to offer and think about how you help build this house to greatness.

I know several girls who received phone calls on BID DAY basically telling them, "Don't bother coming tonight, you didn't make it." WTF??? That is sooooo low and dirty. So basically they were removed to "add" someone's friend at the last minute. Very low.

How does recruitment from the side of active members work then? What system do you guys use. I got cut from all but three house after the first round and eventually did not get a bid. I have a great resume, 3.6 gpa, I'm an attractive girl what happened? I probably had 4 bad conversations. How do you guys decide who to cut, and who higher on list?

If hundreds of beatiful girls, who were dropped wld take a lower bid, think how powerful all the chapters wld be? Nothing is wrong with any of them. A sister is a sister. We all want the same things. If the arrogance of "top" wld stop reminding them, they are lame..things wld change. I'm medium. My pick over top. Happy as a clam.

I feel for you. I really do. But guess what? You coming on here trying to tear down houses that dropped you is not going to get anyone's real sympathy. You went through recruitment. What did you expect to happen? Everyone was supposed to love you and you'd get back to all of the houses you wanted? It doesn't work that way. I was involved in 4sports in high school, was president of key club, was apart of student council, was in all of the school plays, was in NHS, and more. I went through telling all the houses that I was studying abroad in the summer, that I spend my summers on Lake Erie, and had a tumblr blog that had a famous posts, that come to find out my now little pinned it on Pinterest. Just like you OP, I got cut from basically every house. But the difference here is that I'm not going to be bitter about it. I couldn't tell you why I got cut from those houses, even after 3 years. But I'd never put shame on a house for cutting me. They have their reasons why they didn't keep you. And no. It's not all about looks, so stop right there. I've been told all of my life how beautiful I am. Just because I got cut from a house, doesn't mean I look at myself any less. They probably cut you because you either didn't hold your beauty up with confidence or you held yourself up as though you were better than the girls at those houses. And you would have received a bid if you left your options open. I did that. Yes, I didn't get my top choice, but I'm happy that I received a bid.

I bet you are beautiful. But you got cut because you are annoying.

Posts like this make us sad.

I know exactly who this is. Somethings are switched around a bit but I know who exactly who you are

Were you dropped from every single house? I doubt it. So get off your high horse, you judged houses and dropped them just like other houses judged you and dropped you. You are not special or above the system. This post is one of the dumbest to ever be on this pathetic website.