pnm legacy doesn't want to pledge mom's sorority
by: PNM legacyWhat is the best advice for a legacy of a sorority if she thinks she would be happier pledging another sorority. Does she let the others know her thoughts so they don't cut her?
#1 by: Secret
I had the same question during recruitment last year. What I would do when speaking to someone if asked about if my parents were in Greek life, I would say how my mom was involved in Greek life but our experiences are going to be different from each other so I'm not basing my decision on which sorority she was or was not in.
#2 by: Advice
DON'T put your legacy affiliation on your forms for the other houses to know, but DO let your legacy house know that you are coming through. DON'T rule out your legacy house before recruitment - how do you know you don't want it? What if that house is what it comes down to - remember that you don't drop houses, they drop you; you only rank houses and your legacy house may keep coming up on your list. You need to keep an open mind for all the houses.
#4 by: well
If you've already sent in your legacy information, and you being a legacy comes up in conversation, just make sure to reiterate that you're trying to keep an open mind, and you're going to trust the process. Its super easy to catch on to girls that I'm rushing if they're close minded, and aren't interested in my chapter.
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by: Uh ohJun 28, 2017 5:06:17 PM
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