PNMs beware of comments on Insta
by: Experienced piggie
If you’re rushing this fall, and you’ve noticed Tri Delt commenting on your Instagram posts, don’t be flattered. They don’t really want you to be a Tri Delt…they just want you to think they do.
Tri Delt literally assigns members lists of PNMs to stalk and comment on Instagram. Things like “can’t wait until you’re in Faye!”
It’s so you’ll think and believe they really want you…so you rank them highest.
When you get cut, you’ll be shocked and hurt because you believed all the hype you got all summer long.
Tri Delt, don’t even say this isn’t true.
#1 by: ZTA stahppppp
stop bashing other houses. it is not a good look.
every girl in a house will send her friends girls she likes and they comment. it's not that serious.
i had a lot of connections in every house. i had girls commenting on my instagram from every single house on campus, a lot that i did not know. i went to 5 "babies" weekends and we did not sleep in the houses. we stayed with friends in the dorm. not one of them tried to pressure us. just a fun weekend in fayetteville getting to know other girls who were coming to arkansas.
and yes i ended up where i wanted to be but i loved every house i went to during recruitment. even ones that i did not think i would. i have friends in every house on campus and not on of them isn't glad that their rush worked out the way it did.
signed,
top of the hill
Commentby: HahaJun 8, 2025 11:42:53 AM
Honey, they don't want "to get to know everyone during rush" they are only asking their friends. Who cares who they give bids to and why, it's their choice.
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by: ZTA stahpppppJun 8, 2025 1:44:24 PM
all of the houses that recruit AR girls have "babies" weekends. it's not even formal through the houses, and it is actually discouraged i have realized now that i am on the flip side. it's just freshmen girls having other girls that they were close friends with in high school up for the weekend. if you were not invited to one then you did not have good friends at arkansas who were a year ahead of you.
i personally went to pi phi, kappa, chi o, zeta and tri delt "weekends" and have friends who went for kd and phi mu. not one time did anyone say "oh you need to go xyz". in fact, all of them made sure to introduce me to friends they had made that were not even in their sororities. only one of the girls who i went up with for chi o actually went chi o. it's a known fact that chi o did not get a lot of their tops this year so i am pretty sure that you do not go to arkansas at all or you would already know this.
my whole point was to stop calling out a house for liking girls on instagram and having girls up to hang. it's jealousy and trying to mislead pnms. isn't that also dirty rushing? i would say the dirtiest of all.
pnms go in with an open mind and don't take anything negative you hear about any of the houses as fact without deciding for yourselves. i love greek life and hope that everyone finds their perfect fit who wants to be part of it.
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by: Oh okJun 8, 2025 2:33:20 PM
Just pointing it out for the PNMs that actually are brave and strong enough to venture out to go off to college and meet new people, that their rush experience won’t be as “fair” or as equal as the ones who got invited to “babies” weekend.
People like to paint the image that all PNMs have the chance at all the houses, but that simply isn’t true.
A solid, fantastic PNM that is coming from way out of town can realistically expect a mid tier sorority at best.
I am trying to get this info out there, so they won’t be clueless when they realized what happened.
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by: Wow^Jun 8, 2025 3:31:20 PM
What is not FAIR is saying that any group of women, especially with over 200 members, is "mid tier". That is misogyny at its worst and women like you who keep repeating it are disgusting. In fact, you are definitely a bottom tier of a human.
Truth: There are gorgeous, smart, sweet, fun, accomplished girls in every chapter. The chapters that are highly desired during rush, the so-called "top" ones, are considered so not because they have better quality members or offer a better quality sorority, it is because of one thing and one thing only...50% of students come from in state so 50% of the pnm's want to go to one of the in-state houses where their high school friends are members. And those friends are going to prioritize them during recruitment and favor them over any "solid, fantastic PNM" that they don't know. If you aren't already known by one of those houses then you actually aren't a "solid, fantastic PNM" for them, but you will be for a different house.
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#2 by: Real World
It is called "recruitment" because the sororities are recruiting potential members, the key word being 'potential'. That's all you are until there's a bid in your hand. Same thing when a company is looking to hire, they express interest to get you to engage with them so they can decide if you're a fit with the company, it's not a promise they are going to hire you. Same thing with dating someone, it's not a promise of marriage.
Not getting the bid or the job or the proposal or whatever is not being a loser, but anonymously posting on a stupid website out of disappointment or jealousy definitely is.
by: Oh okJun 8, 2025 10:47:54 AM
by: Nothing dirtyJun 8, 2025 11:32:27 AM
Not against panhellenic rules, not bid promising, and every sorority does it all out there in the open for anybody to see. Not dirty rush. Justifying not getting a bid are we?
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by: TruthJun 9, 2025 8:15:27 PM
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by: Oh okJun 8, 2025 10:52:45 AM
And how many that went to “babies” weekend with you didn’t go chi o?
Quit trying to make it sound ok when it isn’t.
If chi o wanted to get to know everyone during rush, then everyone would be invited to a “babies” weekend, correct?
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