What really happens

Wrong, it actually gets much better sophomore year. Most freshmen find that going through their first recruitment on the other side, as an active instead of a pnm, is the ultimate bonding experience. They get to know many other sisters on a close personal level, finding other sisters they adore and forming close friendships with, and also discovering the ones they want to just avoid. Recruitment is a game changer for finally feeling solid about belonging and finding your niche within the larger group.

You do realize it’s up to you to find your people within the chapter… We can’t make friends for you or force you to into having a good time. Greek life is what you choose to make it. Some people make the best of their time no matter where they go, some people don’t.