just for the pnms information

yes!! the whole point of the no contact rule is that no house shows favoritism, and the pnms don't lean toward any house based on how many sorority girls in one house liked her instagram picture. each pnm is supposed to get an equal rush experience

Please note if you are currently receiving messages, texts, snaps, etc from an active or sorority in particular, they are dirty rushing! Think...do you want to be part of a house that breaks the rules and could potentially be put on probation?

Also, just because that house is contacting you (or sent you 40 friend requests) or will have 5 girls rushing you at one time in a party, it doesn't mean that they will offer you a bid! They may truly be interested in you, but they are definitely looking out for themselves and trying to guarantee that more PNMs want them. This gives them more PNMs to choose from and sets girls up for heartbreak. Additionally, this behavior doesn't mean they want you more than other houses do. Other houses are just following the rules and playing fair.