hey pnm's

No I think all sororities would be interested to know. We've all been working our butts off all spring so advice is appreciated. There's no way we can find out who you are anyways

Based on what? Preview and that's it?

It isn't an active wondering how there house is doing. They posted this on the Ole Miss greek rank and who knows how many other schools.

Yeah actually I only posted it on bama... I thought it would be interesting to see what the other pnms think of you guys based off of this website/spring teas/preview/social media. I was at bama bound session 4 and a lot of the girls honestly wanted the houses that were known for looks or a good time.

well either you're lying, or someone copied your post word for word and just changed the name to "active" and the subject to "dear pnms".

The only answers on here will be from the sororities themselves writing flowery things to attract pnms. Don't believe anything you see! In fact, if you see comments mentioning certain sororities, know that someone in that house is insecure enough to think they need this kind of publicity to get good pnms this year. Avoid them.

All it means is that you weren't on their list. Maybe they didn't know about you. Getting invited or not means nothing.

Yeah actually, it kind of does. Every house I went to for spring teas I had until at least skit round

Sometimes it means something, sometimes it doesn't. Depends on a lot of things. They could either not be interested or they could not know about her yet. It could go the way it went for you or it could go the other way.

I hope @humph is right, but they got me name and number at preview and it seemed likening ad a good visit with them at Coleman. So no invite to tea seemed like a conscious decision. It's cool. I can't make them want to get to know me better but maybe things work out and I end up at one of those houses. I guess you never know till you get in rush. But I thought it was kinda odd that some seemed to be very interested and others had nothing.

What does "on their list" mean if there was a list that the PNMs signed into at Preview Day? If a PNM was on that "list" then was there another "list" for Spring Teas? if so, would a house be so unorganized to not pick some from the preview "list" and put it on the Spring Tea "list"? I guess so, but not impressive.

Most likely, there is a list for Spring Teas that comes from the Christmas Party list for hometown events during winter break. That list is based on contacts. Then the houses picked who they liked from the Preview Day list and added it to their base list. This was the Spring Tea "list". So, if a PNM went to Preview Day and gave her name and address, but then did not make the Spring Tea "list", it has to mean something.

At a minimum it means the House was not so impressed they just had to invite the PNM to Spring Tea. That is not nothing. That means the Preview Day crew did not call the PNM out as a strong prospect, it seems to me.

Maybe because there were 1300 girls and it was impossible to hear? Geez.

Nah, they just don't try hard in anything the do, including recruitment. Where other sororities would've taken the time to find great girls who came to preview and add them to their list, they probably didn't do that. They probably kept the list that was turned in early in the year which just included all the pnms that actives knew.
Kkg and kd are typically lazy when it comes to recruitment, you'll probably be able to notice in the fall

Off what this person said, they also do have majority of the girls they want and these girls also know that they will go Kappa or KD, so in turn they don't exactly try to scope out new girls

DG, GPhi, Theta, and Pi Phi all have tons of OOS girls.