fell in love with a house
by: helpI have tried to be realistic and down to earth for this whole past week but I’ve fallen in love with a house that is never going to invite me back for pref. Honestly I am still shocked they asked me back for sisterhood. Does anyone have advice for dealing with this? I don’t want to look like an idiot when I get my schedule tomorrow.
#1by: Hi
Keep your head up, you could very well get invited back. If you don’t tho, PLEASE give the houses you do get invited back to a chance. Your situation is so so so common amongst PNMs, and I experienced the same thing when I rushed. The two houses you will go to at pref are houses that really saw something in you could see you as a sister. Take that as a compliment- you are wanted there. Even if you leave pref and neither house feels perfect, just please give it a chance. It wasn’t until a couple weeks after bid day that I really began to love my house. You’ve already made it so far, please don’t give up.
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by: help
I guess. It kind of feels like they only invited me back because of my grades and one lucky connection to their philanthropy.
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by: @nope
This is literally so overly dramatic. This is an anonymous site and the OP posted NO identifying information. Go touch grass
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by: ^
they would have dropped you after Philanthropy round if that were the case. Stay positive - you're worthy of any house <3
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#3by: Honestly
Each house has so many members and plan so much stuff it does not matter where you go. You will find friends in any house and you will have fun in any house. Just move on to the house that WANTED YOU, and put the houses that did not want you behind you. You can be happy in any house as long as you do not get hung up on rank here.
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by: Tell them!
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Dying to know which 2 houses you visited today and where you end up. Or at the very least if you get the house you want on bid day. SO excited for you!!
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by: help
Thank you, this post is so sweet. I will absolutely finish rush, if only because I don’t think I could survive going through it again lol. There are houses I could see myself being happy in so I’m not worried about that. I think my biggest fear is making an idiot out of myself when I see that this one house hasn’t invited me back. It helps to know that other people will be having harder days too and that I’m not going to be the only person feeling a little sad or disappointed. I just don’t want to cry over it.
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