post on tiktok - you will be dropped by elite houses

I agree, but I think what you meant to say is 'discrete' not secretive. Discretion in displaying appropriate behavior at all times, in public and on social media, should be important to everyone, but not everyone gets that. Drawing attention to yourself in a way that could be spun into something negative or invite controversy and criticism, and let's face it anything on tiktok can be that, is not a good idea for anyone. It also shows a self-centeredness, and sororities are about the membership, not the self.

If you want the benefits of sorority membership and the association with its name and reputation, you have to contribute to that as a member to hold the standard. "What's in it for me?" is a good question, but not the only question. What do you have to contribute that other members want to be assiciated with?

The actives lived by those same rules when they rushed, there is a difference between an active member and a PNM. As a PNM, you want them to see you as someone who is rushing to be a part of the sorority for four years and be active and give back, not as someone who’s just doing it to get followers, likely to drop when the first year hype is over, maybe not even finish the degree. Sororities are strongest when they recruit girls who stick around for four years.

^ this is why Zeta is middle tier and Alpha Phi is bottom tier. They use the recruiting tactic of seeking out IG and TikTok girls. So far I’d say that strategy has failed.

Actually TT is what scares the other house about Zeta. They do it well and it gives them an advantage. OR doesn’t want it be a thing bc they’ll loose their ranking. If they weren’t so scared, they wouldn’t be posting consistently about ZTA or social media.

You seriously think TikTok gives ZTA an advantage? Kylan’s videos of her awkwardly leading around the ZTA house is so cringe.

She has the body of a 12-yr-old boy and the personality of a dead mouse.

If anything the barrage of Zeta TikTokkers hurts them more than helps.

Those zetas in the rush doc definitely didn’t help. PM got burned by that doc too. When houses talk about stopping certain girls because they’re a social media liability, this is what they’re talking about.

The real world includes social media. Everything on TT has been fine. Nothing wrong with OOTDs. Employers won’t fire u over it.

Employers won't care but we're talking about sorority rush. Know your audience, read the room. Sororities decide what is "fine", not outsiders, and will not choose a pnm if they find her tiktoks cringy or if they think she over posts.

OR can make whatever cuts they want. A lot of PNMs r posting and still posting. They enjoy it. It isn’t a big a deal. OR will have a worse recruitment bc of this attitude. That’s why u keep posting this warning. OR is worried they won’t have their picks of PNMs. The funny thing, nobody is listening.

Correction: Phi Mu isn’t what it once was.

It doesn't matter in the least to OR if you're interested or not; you're just a groupie who wants to view content, and pnm's who are catering to what people like you want instead of what sororities want aren't going to have as many choices in rush. The sororities ARE savvy in social media, they are doing the chosing, and if the pnm's were actually savvy enough there wouldn't be all these threads about it. Maybe take this advice, try to be more savvy in spelling.

Nobody asked for a washed up alum’s opinion that went through rush before the internet existed. Bama has changed since 1990.

That's a new one for them! Wonder what school they plagiarized it from?

Elite houses=houses washed up granny alums like to control

I get it, this is a school where no matter how hard a house tries, they can’t get around the old row thing. There is prestige associated with old row and it goes back generations.