What is Nola like?
by: Just wonderingDo u stay w ur date the whole time? Share a hotel room? Like whats the vibe
Commentby: hotelingJul 16, 2023 3:10:33 PM
by: FormalsJul 16, 2023 3:35:49 PM
I promise you you will not be expected to hook up, unless you are in a sorority that is know for having girls that do (and you know the two I’m talking about).
If you want to hook up, it’s fine, but don’t feel like you have to go all the way. Just don’t get too drunk. Or better yet, get your date really drunk so he just passes out. Lol.
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#2 by: !
NOLA is super fun. Yes, you spend the whole weekend with your date. You leave on Friday and stay in hotels and they have a dance/bar hopping/other events. The guys pay for everything. The girl just decorates a cooler for her date and fills it with his favorite beverages.
I have a fraternity boyfriend and have gone with him the last two years and set up a ton of my sisters with his friends. It’s one of the best weekends of the year.
I have many friends that go to multiple NOLA weekends so the cooler decorating grind is real.
by: Also this.Jul 17, 2023 12:59:39 PM
I would also add that you do share a room with another couple, usually, and you share a bed with your date unless you've already had a conversation about that. When I set up my two friends (with guys they already knew) with my date's friends, there was a pre-agreement that my two friends were sharing a bed together and they didn't care where their dates slept. If you are not in a relationship with your date, it can be awkward if you don't have the conversation before you go.
I have only shared a room with another couple so if hooking up is happening, its not happening in the room...for most dignified girls even if you are with your boyfriend.
I find the most awkward thing is to share a room and bathroom with another girl you don't know. The dates my boyfriend's bestie has brought to Nola have been rude and hot messes. Its why I usually try to get my friend's dates.
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#3 by: Depends
For me, hooking up literally wouldn’t have even been an option bc of the other couple we were with. Nola is super fun and VERY drunk all the way thru, so you get a mix every time. The second night for me, the other girl made her date sleep on the floor and we shared a bed. I personally s didn’t leave my date throughout the whole trip, but I have friends who ditched their dates at the beginning and hung out with each other at the Beach all night. Hooking up is almost never expected tho unless it’s a Jefferson fraternity, aphi/zeta, or y’all have a single bedroom
by: CuriousJul 16, 2023 8:26:51 PM
by: No South in your mouthJul 16, 2023 10:10:32 PM
The traditionally “Southern” fraternities tend to be more “Southern gentleman” types. They’re much less likely to pressure girls like the Jersey guido Pikes do.
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by: Not trueJul 17, 2023 12:49:29 PM
The Jefferson comment is completely untrue. I agree that Pike is a whole different story but they are unlike all the rest of NR/Jefferson fraternities.
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by: DependsJul 17, 2023 5:45:46 PM
Ok yeah i actually retract that statement it’s not Jefferson it’s just Pike lol
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by: sorry not sorryJul 16, 2023 10:13:25 PM
Who is a guy more likely to assume will go all the way with him? An Alpha Chi or an Alpha Phi?
The houses have the reputations they do for a reason.
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by: vJul 17, 2023 8:38:03 AM
by: spread ‘emJul 17, 2023 12:59:26 PM
by: OpJul 16, 2023 10:46:06 PM
by: KJul 16, 2023 10:47:58 PM
Zeta and Alpha Phi are invited to the crap frat formals. No one is jealous of them.
#HolidayInn
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by: ^Jul 16, 2023 10:48:50 PM
by: Try harder old ladyJul 17, 2023 8:35:54 AM
No one under 40 still uses that emoji. And you said “granny.” My guess is your either an Alpha Phi advisor, or you’re from their nationals and you’ve been tasked with burying the truth about their rep on campus.
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by: …Jul 17, 2023 8:58:21 AM
Why are you defecting grandma??? Lmao nobody under 40 uses the laughing emoji?? U are so out of touch and so years out of being college aged it’s actually hilarious. We don’t say “frat” here either right? How about u answer the question and stop dodging
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by: RanksJul 17, 2023 10:31:35 AM
Misogynistic much . I can tell this is coming from some bitter half baked troll.
Putting groups of women down to feed these ridiculous rankings is wack.
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by: KY JellyJul 17, 2023 11:31:16 AM
If you’re an Alpha Phi and get invited to a formal you’d better bring lots of lube! The guys are going to expect you to put out for your date and all of his friends too!
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#9 by: Gwals
Girls listen up. Stereotypes about each house exist for a reason. Does every Alpha Phi or Zeta smash at formal? No. But do enough of them do it that everyone now refers to those two as the easy girl sororities? Yes.
Behind every stereotype is enough truth that got it started.
by: AgreeJul 17, 2023 1:24:02 PM
I agree with you but stereotypes can be outdated and your house's reputation isn't the same as it was 5, 10 or 15 years ago no matter how many posts on GR you write.
The problem with Zeta and Aphi is that they aren't even trying to change their reputation, they embrace it. They pride themselves on recruiting girls based on attractiveness only so they can be popular with the guys. Sisterhood, involvement, grades, leadership, supporting other women in the Greek system do not matter.
Aphi is the same house on every campus- hot, dumb girls, who party hard. I have two brothers at different schools in the Midwest and they warned me about being a Aphi.
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by: OpJul 16, 2023 3:05:56 PM
So u share a room w ur date?
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