in state under the radar pnm?
by: qsso I'm from the otm area and like half of my school is going to bama. all the girls rushing are the super popular, well connected cliquey type girls. obviously I know some actives but def not to the extent of most of these girls, and not super popular either. saw a post the other day talking about how in state girls who aren't well known will have a hard time rushing. how true is this? I know I wouldn't fit in with them and I also don't want my freshman year to be like 13th grade with the same friend groups and high school circles. are good houses gonna want me? do hometown girls tend to stick together? I'm just worried that old row won't want me cause I don't fit the type and I won't fit into new row. honestly debating whether I should even rush atp. any advice would be great
#1by: advice
There are plenty of girls just like you every year that come through not expecting much and are shocked at how well rush goes for them. Don't let anyone on here predetermine your rush for you, this is your time. Don't try to judge yourself through the sororities' eye, only they can do that. Don't worry about the other girls, just stand on your own. You need to be confident throughout rush and concentrate on great conversations and cute outfits that are right for you. Don't listen to tent talk during rush or tell other pnm's what you really think about houses; be positive at all times in and out of the houses. Get recs if you can.
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by: Yep
Excellent advice. I would only add, keep an open mind toward all the sororities and roll with the punches.