I am going to be a PNM and need help

I am currently looking at three different Sorority and I need some advice. I am looking at phi mu X AGD X KD. I know that AGD has great academics and really focused on philanthropy which I absolutely love. So i am kinda tied to them. phi mu is more top tier and have a better reputation than most i just heard the sisters there dont give great head. On the other hand KD parties a lot which I enjoy and want to be apart of that and they are very active on campus. Can anyone give me advice and feedback?