Friendliest House/ Genuine Sisterhood?
by: Fall PNM
I know me and my fellow PNMs have to take comments on GR not too seriously but it’s hard to ignore entirely when we are all trying to just get a feel for Greek life on campus. There have been a lot of posts about houses ranked by grades and a lot of comments about the attractiveness of a house. My friends and I don’t really care about grades of a house when choosing a sorority- we all get good grades so feel like we’ll continue to do that in any house. Some of my friends do care about being in a hot house because they care about that and don’t care about much else. However, most of us just want to find good friends in our future house, be treated nicely by others in the house, and not be in the middle of bad drama.
We’ve gathered from posts and comments that PM, Aphi, Gphi, KKG, Zeta, KD, AGD, and now SK all have large enough percentages of drama or mean girls that it comes up on this site a lot.
Can anyone honestly tell me what houses are most friendly among their fellow members? We understand that the houses are big and there is going to be drama in all of them but what ones have the best reputations for being nice to each other?
Commentby: DDD
#24by: Truth
There are about 400 girls in each house. More girls in a house than the total in many high schools.
No matter the house, you are going to have a core group of friends - maybe five to ten.
An extended group - maybe 25 or so.
And there will be people in your pledge class (about 135 girls) you don’t even know their name come second semester.
When it comes to the entire house of 400 there will be plenty of girls you dont know.
True in every house.
I don’t care which house - there is going to be “drama” between groups - drops from group texts; a limited number of friend groups that control executive, social media, events, etc, some groups who the rules don’t apply to , and some groups that won’t speak to one another…
In some houses the result is more quiet, even seething, less “loud”, more girls who tend to “suck-it-up” or don’t care and others with more “type a” who want to “make a point”, or fake-it with a good facade, but that doesn’t mean the tension and emotions of 400 girls living, eating, organizing and dating is not there.
Obviously, it’s not all negative - more positive than negative for sure. But there is no avoiding the realities (in any house) of group dynamics. \n\n\n\n\n
#26by: Its About the Leaders
Bump. All of these comments. Some houses are much less drama (even with 400 members) because their leadership is not involved in the drama or puts an end to it when they find out about it.
Other houses are FULL of drama in part because their leadership is part of it or causing it (PM, Zeta, Aphi) or their leadership favors the girls that are causing it and doesn't do anything about it (KKG, Gphi, KD, AGD, DDD).
#28by: Save drama for yo Mama
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by: So close
Agree with all except DDD....that house is full of mean girl, high school drama. My suitemate pledged there and had so many problems
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