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Stats on future pnm

by: pnmin5months

I will be part of the recruitment process in a few short months. I would really like to know what some of the houses view a top pnm to be? I understand membership selection is secret, but I am curious how I stack up. Do you want a gpa of 3.5 or better? Are you looking for someone who was in a variety or activities? Is service really important? How much do you weigh how someone looks, their body type and even their clothing? I prefer to hear honest responses and I am ready for tough replies.

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#1  by: Honest response   
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The biggest factor isn't the number of activities / involvement - it is showing a passion in something - whether it is cheer / volleyball / a service group. Right now houses are looking at girls from their particular region - recruitment committees are by region - California girls looking at California pnms, NY / Florida / local, etc...There are meetings with discussions if they know the girls / know of the girls, etc. Their social media is looked at. (Make sure this is cleaned up).
My house doesn't rank you higher because you have designer clothing, but it helps to look put together / that you have put in effort.
Grades do matter when cuts first happen - there are so many girls, therefore many cuts happen - with the higher GPA's remaining. If you have any connections to any girls - even from your hometown / region, that is also helpful. If you are coming to campus soon for any tours/visit, you can reach out to girls to meet for coffee / lunch to learn about their house.

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by: Honest Is RightMar 23, 2022 10:34:43 AM

If you are coming from a town or state that doesn’t draw a lot of students to Bama, you will be at a disadvantage for the reasons sated above. A lot of really quality girls get passed up by the top houses early because of the numbers of connections other girls have in that house because of where they are from. Try not to think about that too much if that applies to you. Go through the process with an open mind and if you are yourself during the process, you’ll be fine.

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by: "Top Houses"Mar 23, 2022 10:58:08 AM

"Quality girls" also pass up on the "top houses." I try to use the term "Top Houses" with a grain of salt. I am from out of state - didn't know anyone. I came with a high GPA, participated in competitive sports, told I am pretty, etc. I was recruited actively by these houses. At each house - the president would talk to me in another room and was given lots of attention. It was flattering. I ended up ranking my favorite houses "mid houses" because that is where I felt most comfortable. My pref was a top and mid house. I listed the mid as my #1 and that is what I got and couldn't be happier.

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by: pnmMar 23, 2022 11:16:34 AM

How do sororities know who is a pnm at this point since registration hasn't happened yet? How do I put myself on the committees' radars?

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by: ^Mar 24, 2022 7:35:14 AM

You can't put yourself on committees' radars if you don't already have personal contacts in the chapters. Do you know anyone in a chapter here from your high school or church or sports or other activities, or who is a friend of a friend who can help you out with an introduction? If not, then you need to have good social media and follow houses and actives.

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by: SLMar 24, 2022 8:04:40 AM

@ “Top Houses”- I had the same experience. I didn’t know anyone and came from a State hardly anyone is from. I ranked houses based on what I saw and the conversations we had. I will admit that the top 4 OR houses dropped me after 1st rounds before they even met me but I would not have been happy in those houses. I had an almost full card all week. I pref’d a house that is continually ranked as a “bottom” over a house that is considered on here a top mid tier. Other PNMs thought I was crazy but I didn’t know about reputations, ranks, etc. and I didn’t care what girls I barely knew told me. Tent talk is toxic. I ❤️ my house and all the friends I’ve made in it. It’s already my second home and I have no regrets. Based on comments here, I should be miserable but that is just not the case. I might add that my roommate ended up in a top OR house in part because she believed the rankings and tent talk and she ended up leaving her house before initiation. She had an awful experience.

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by: NahMar 24, 2022 9:24:02 AM

I am from the west coast, and I had a full card every round. My card consisted of most of the Old Row houses and what is considered 'top tier' on Greek Rank. I won't lie - my insta is excellent, but my grades were mid (3.75). I preffed one Old Row/top tier house and one New Row. I ended up in the house that was best for me.

This Old Row versus New Row is such BS - it is perpetuated by the moms and old school alums.

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#2  by: Active   
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First of all - good luck with your recruitment process. Please try to enjoy it all you can. It is so exciting to meet all of the new girls! I am still friends with the girls I met in my pnm group, even though we are in different houses. I didn't know anyone from UA - not a single person! I really feel my process was different from other girls that were either from the area or ones that spent countless hours looking at their IG's and making decisions / having their hearts set on certain houses due to pics. UA houses have over 400 girls in the house and you can't make a decision over IG, "tent talk" or what you read on GR. I'm excited for you! Roll Tide!

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#3  by: good luck   
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Your grades and resume are a start, but are NEVER what gets anybody a bid. This is why rush is in person; we want to meet you. Wear what is flattering for YOU, YOUR body type, YOUR personality. Dress for rush parties in what is appropriate for the occasion and makes you feel cute, gives you confidence, and is physically comfortable; labels and price tag be damned. This will present you well and say a lot about you to us. For conversations, if you are a positive, warm, funny, confident, interesting girl, who is at ease, poised and confident, and shows interest and appreciation in who she is talking to at each house, that will go a long way.

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by: GoodMar 23, 2022 12:02:24 PM

^^^^^Great advice - be yourself...show interest...wear what is a reflection of YOU! I am from the north and was intrigued by all of the poofy dresses the southern girls wore. It was fun to see.
All will work out - it is all worth it!

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#4  by: Wow!   
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All of this advice is great, honest, and positive. I love it.

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#5  by: IG   
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Make sure you join the IG UA Class of 2026 page. That helps too.

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#6  by: Don't worry   
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Right now, just focus on getting your rec letters, cleaning up your social media, and enjoying what is left of high school! Most houses try to find a variety of girls. Certain houses pick mainly local girls, and that is ok! See where you feel comfortable and determine your ranks from there! Good Luck!

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#7  by: For Real   
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PNM's - It cannot be emphasized enough that while recruitment is a 'mutual selection process' it is the sororities who are making the decisions of who is invited back or not. They do not see your rankings so it doesn't matter how bad you want a certain sorority, it is their decision based on their own chapter's opinion. The only time your rankings come into play is in the event that more sororities want you back than your schedule will allow, and that's when the algorithm kicks in to drop your lower ranked houses from your schedule. And while some girls certainly do get full cards, or nearly full cards, most, and I mean the vast majority, do not. Be aware that tent talk includes some pnm's bragging that they are getting full cards when they are not, so don't pay attention to what anyone is saying about their rush, period, and there is no need for you to share any of your opinions or experiences with others unless they are positive ones about the houses and other pnm's. And finally, being released from any house is NOT personal, it DOESN'T mean you aren't good enough, and NO ONE in that house is looking down on you. You will be more than fine!

By: For Real

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