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pnms--follow actives back

by: active

let me just say if you are a pnm and you are not following back the actives that choose to follow you or are only following certain ones back--we know who you are and it's not giving you a good impression. our girls are taking time out of their days to find and follow y'all to get to know you a bit before rush and you're showing us exactly where you stand among us. and by the way, houses talk. so if you think you're going to get in good with old row or zeta by only following them, careful what you do to their friends in other houses.

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#1  by: Lol   
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Not really true at all. You aren’t going to get blacklisted from Zeta or AXO bc you don’t follow back a DG or SK 😂

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by: ^Mar 15, 2022 6:07:56 PM

Don't act entitled or impolite. That's how it comes across. Just follow, it's a real easy thing to do.

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by: wowMar 15, 2022 6:26:35 PM

Tell me you’re a spoiled mountain Brook girl going to bama with your bwm and Koch shorts off your daddy’s money who thinks she’s a top without telling me. Grow up and take a look around you. Welcome to the real world.

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by: ^^Mar 15, 2022 7:46:58 PM

Imagine being so pressed over an IG follow lmao. Nobody has to follow you back to make yourself feel better. That’s the real world. Like I said, you’re not going to get blacklisted from a top house because you don’t follow a bottom. Nobody cares and you sound ridiculous telling 17 year old girls what to do and trying to scare them into following you, loser.

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by: ^^^^Mar 16, 2022 9:03:07 AM

You are exactly one of the types of people that we are trying to filter out, so thank you for the excellent example. It's not about making ourselves "feel better" for a follow back, it's about making sure we get nice sisters who are polite and considerate to everyone, not just those they think are worthy or are sucking up to. If you can't bother to follow back as a simple decent gesture, then you'll get a consequence come rush. Your type is far more likely to make our house look bad or cause internal drama, so we pay attention to these clues when we are assessing 1500 pnm's.

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by: AwMar 16, 2022 1:19:41 PM

I’m sure a PNM is going to be so upset she got cut from your house because of an Instagram follow.

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by: ^Mar 16, 2022 1:21:25 PM

Keep in mind it’s spring break at bama, and whoever this is is crying over an IG follow on GR. Probably not the house you want to join 😂

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by: no pnmMar 16, 2022 2:11:09 PM

@Aw so easy to tell that you have never been a pnm.

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by: SistersMar 16, 2022 2:37:36 PM

There are houses that do care about IG numbers, looks and followers. All of the bla bla before applies only to these houses.


There are houses that focus on personality character loyalty and being well rounded. So if you do not follow a DG or an AXO… who cares? DG doesn’t care and AXO will have a second check. We want to get you know personally during recruitment and decide afterwards. So please calm down.

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by: ^^Mar 16, 2022 5:28:11 PM

EXACTLY. Whoever made this post is just immature and salty they didn’t get a follow back on Instagram. What if the girl didn’t notice or forgot to follow back after stalking your page? Is she now dropped? 😂 There’s other important things going on in the world, I promise. My house wants to get to know you in person.

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#2  by: risky   
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It is VERY true that word gets around during recruitment. If you are rude at a house or refuse to talk bc you think you that a house is "beneath" you...it WILL get around. Rude PNMs are reported to J board and that info gets circulated. Plus, actives have friends in other houses and your name will get around as a rude, entitled PNM and NO house wants a girl with that attitude.

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by: ActiveMar 16, 2022 8:57:59 AM

^^^^Truth^^^^

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by: XMar 16, 2022 12:20:33 PM

Yeah, this is true. Though this doesn’t happen because of an IG follow 😂😂😂

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#3  by: Yawn. Aphi relax.    
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Candace please calm down. You are pretty, sweet and smart but just calm down if one of the UA class of 26 doesn’t follow you back.

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#4  by: yikes!!   
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lmfao most houses don't like it when ur rude to other houses and will drop you for it, but no one is gonna pull up ur instagram and check who ur following when deciding to cut you tf lol. no one has time for that.

i'm an active and don't really follow pnms unless 1) i know them, or 2) think they're really cool/pretty. and i don't expect a follow back at all?? nor am i sitting there refreshing her page to see if she followed back some phi mu's and not me lol

just say ur insecure about how ur house measures up and go. most pnms follow all the houses anyways and that matters more than following back rando actives who stalk them.

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by: UmmmMar 22, 2022 10:24:37 PM

You must be in a bottom house. Top houses have teams that do check social media for follow backs.

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by: 😂😂Mar 22, 2022 10:36:34 PM

define “top” houses? because i know for a fact this is not true wtf 🤣

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by: PinbrainMar 23, 2022 5:25:56 AM

Either you don't go to UA or you are at the bottom. Even middle houses have social media teams for recruitment.

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by: YesMar 24, 2022 5:03:02 AM

^^^^Truth^^

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#5  by: Follows   
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It is true that the houses do have social media teams. It is polite to follow actives that follow you. It can also give you an insight into their house social activities.

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