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Do people stay friends with girls in different houses

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my roomates and I all chose different houses and assuming we get our top picks like will we stay friends for the next 4 years or do you spend so much time with your new sisters that you usually lose touch with the girls you met before rush

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And you get to make friends with their sisters. And they yours.
(Unless someone all of a sudden feels they are too good for their friends)

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Nope you’re forbidden to interact with anyone from your old life. That’s why families come to bid day, to say goodbye.

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hahahaha this actually made me laugh thanks for living me up I’ve been SO stressed this week

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Np 😉 it’s gonna be fine! Worry about one thing at a time. And today that’s gonna be not falling when you go to run to your house in a bit.

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For real though yea! I mean 80% of your future activities are with your own chapter, but I’m still friends with my roommate from freshman year who went to a dif house (helps that we have the same major).

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You can def still be close with your roommates and other girls you connected with and do stuff together. A lot of times y'all will drift apart anyway though, not from different affiliations but you just get on a different page in life, so to speak, and you have other paths and perspectives as you grow. College is about that.

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Also, please understand that you aren't going to like everyone in your sorority. A lot you will be just fine with and some you will hardly ever know. This is natural, not a problem, and if you find a HANDFUL of really close wonderful sisters to be your friend group that you love, you have done sorority life right.

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Omg yes please realize you’re not gonna be besties with everyone in your chapter. But in 2 years I’ve learned the importance of having to work together with people I don’t agree with and it’s invaluable.

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You’ll still be friends with them if you work on your relationship. It may be a bit harder now everyone has their own activities and classes, but it’s doable! Plan study dates, coffee dates and do a once a month movie night (if possible). Don’t forget to support each other for philanthropy events!

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by: Girl   

I should add that it won’t be your house that separates you, it will be your major. Especially if you’re in a STEM program like Nursing. You’re going to see you naturally will want to be around people of the same major as you, regardless if they’re Greek or not.

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lol at nursing being considered STEM.

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by: most   

And, you are going to meet some great girls who aren't in a sorority. Some of them might be convinced to rush if you like them and think they're a fit and you can bring them to events and introduce them around.

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