What Its Like To Be In A Bad Sorority

MM, that's who!

Exactly it is me LMAO
The comments are all from thetas and that is a perfect representation of who these girls are.
I tried for an entire semester but I wasn’t going to bring people in if I didn’t like it and that’s the entire root of the problem you girls want to bring more girls in but hate it I don’t understand why you’re wasting your parents money to complain it’s sad

Thank you for asking that.
I didn’t drop before initiation because I thought I was supposed to be in the house everyone says trust the process so I really tried. Unfortunately I didn’t find any genuine people. If I could go back I would COB which is why I stress that so much. I tried being friends with the girls I would text them and ask to go to their pregames and they wouldn’t answer and post them as a group on snap. It was hard as a freshman I was so sad. I made it even worse on myself posting a YouTube video which has truly showed their colors. I’ve gone out to a bar and have had a theta shove me and make clear eye contact as if it was some kind of weird threat.
Before I dropped I tried expressing my concerns with the board and they just kept asking me to stay yet I would sit at breakfast in the house alone. As a freshman everything seems like such a big deal and I can personally say I wouldn’t wish what I went through on anyone. If you are relating to my statements and know how I feel I’m so sorry.

NONE of the guys at this date party could bring thetas it wasn’t a personal thing LMAO. Thetas don’t have a good reputation and they would be laughed at as pledges for bringing a theta anywhere.
I’m happy your experience went better than mine and many others. I’m sharing mine simply for the freshman and they will see it themselves unfortunately.
All I was trying to do was let them know they’re not alone feeling those things because so many people in the sorority are displeased with it.
I was heartbroken at the reality of things in the house and a lost freshman as well this is something that needs to be talked about. FRESHMAN NEED TO KNOW

Honestly thought this was a joke but I am really sorry you got treated that way. No one deserves that but at the same time, why would u stay around these shallow people like they probably are the type of people to just put others down to feel better about themselves so if they weren’t making fun of your sorority they would’ve probably been making fun of something else about you. I don’t think this was your sororities fault but more so the douche bag of a a guy u were hanging with. Why bless these guys with your presence when they obviously don’t deserve it. You get treated however you set your boundaries around other people.

If you were ever a freshman at the university of Alabama you know how pledges act and you know how new sorority girls act too. I couldn’t go to a party or bar without the first question being “what sorority are you in”. I tried HARD to rep them and ignore how hated they were around campus. I stuck up for them my entire first semester until I realized I had not met any genuine connections. I was so hurt as a freshman I even posted a YouTube video about it then I received endless dms about how girls in theta feel the same and I had no idea until I dropped and posted the video that girls were feeling what I felt. It’s sad but it’s the reality of it. I hope this chain reached freshmen.

Why didn't you just drop before initiation if you were so unhappy? Not trying to be mean, just asking.

I dropped my first semester because I wasn’t going to bring people into it if I didn’t like it. Which was exactly what some of these girls were doing. I stayed for that semester to try.