forget greekrank
by: Believe in you
PNMs forget rankings. Give every house a chance and pick the houses you feel most comfortable in. Every house has programming and events in place to provide you with a terrific experience, even newer houses. The only ones ranking on here are insecure people who are desperately trying to find some way to feel superior to others. If you feel you need to be in a “better” sorority to feel better about yourself, then you will not find enough of that kind of support in a sorority.
Instead, you need to see sororities for what they really are: each is a group of women working to find connections and friendships through social programming and group responsibilities designed to appeal to and support a variety of college women. Each chapter will give you opportunities to meet and form friendships within a very diverse group of about 400 women by providing all kinds of shared college experiences via sorority events and meals. Each provides a beautiful place to gather and live. If you participate in good faith, you will meet plenty of women and you will most likely bond with a few great friends. Most women usually have plenty of events to attend and most find very close friends, regardless of the house they join.
Any PNM going through recruitment that has fallen for GR rankings and believes any group of 400 women might be beneath her, status-wise, is seriously fooling herself.
Comment#33 by: best
This is truly the best thing I've ever read on GR. The only girls I know that were unhappy about recruitment were the ones that went in wanting someone else's list of houses. The ones that picked for themselves ended up in houses they were happy with. The ones that wanted houses because other people had recommended them (including GR) were unhappy or dropped. It's miserable to be in a sea of this many PNMs and realize that your one and only favorite house didn't put you high enough to get an invite. If you can just trust the process and pick a new favorite if you need to each day, you'll be happy on bid day and beyond
#35 by: true
I had a couple of friends from high school that dropped out of recruitment because they felt like they only had houses where they didn't fit in (read: those houses were beneath me). Just so you understand, in houses of over 400 girls, all houses have girls that you fit in with and girls that you don't. No house is beneath you. The ranks you see are left over from the 1950s and early 1960s. They have no relevance today.
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by: ALJul 31, 2019 7:59:53 AM
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