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by: Engaged PNM

Honest opinion here....if a PNM is engaged to be married, will houses see her in a more positive or a more negative light?

Posted By: Engaged PNM
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#1  by: Idk   
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I'm in a frat, so I can't really tell you if its gonna hurt you, but lots of girls here are engaged junior/senior year or after they graduate. So it might be smart to keep it to yourself in case they think you're too young and wont have anything in common with single pledges

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#2  by: Also Engaged   
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I disagree with that. I think you'll be fine going through recruitment engaged. We're women after all

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#3  by: .   
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Who cares? Good for you!

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#4  by: Engaged PNM   
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Well thank y'all! I was just curious because I didn't know if it would make a PNM look good because it shows a committed person or if it would work against a PNM because they might not want a girl who is too serious with her life so soon?

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#5  by: are you 18   
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any freshman that's engaged before starting at Alabama is just nuts.

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by: yikes!Jul 2, 2013 9:18:05 PM

I read the post at least 5 times to make sure I read it right

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by: Be real Aug 12, 2023 7:25:09 PM

Nuts is a harsh word. Naive is more realistic in this scenario

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#6  by: uh   
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You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Are you gonna have a 4 year engagement, or will you get married in college? You can't be married and be in a sorority as an active member, and since girls are looking for members for 4 years, you'll probably be an easy cut. Congratulations, though.

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#7  by: Wait what   
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I’m so confused

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#8  by: Ok    
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You asked for an honest opinion - if you say you are engaged, it will hurt your rush.

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#9  by: Barbie   
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Ok. And I’m bad like the Barbie

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#10  by: Confused   
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Most chapters have a rule that you can't be married an be an active member, so unless she is going to have a 4 year engagement, I don't see how this could work.

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