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why do you penalize traditionally southern houses?

by: Confused

When ranking houses, why do you guys penalize the traditionally southern houses that typically only take girls from the south, like KD, XO and AGD? I’m from the Midwest, but I don’t see anything wrong with them doing that. It’s the University of ALABAMA so it’s okay for some houses to pref girls from the south.

All of New Row is very open to girls from far OOS, so it’s not like we’re being blackballed here and there are girls in all three of those southern houses from California, NY and all over. I just think it’s a dumb reason to drop those houses down a tier for that.

All three of those houses have higher grades, more involvement and cleaner reputations than Kappa and most of DDD. It shouldn’t affect their rank because they have more girls from the south than Phi Mu and AXO do.

Am I missing something?

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#1  by: Guest   
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because college is the time for girls to branch out of their comfort zone and girls in sororities like KD (who take mostly in state) usually clump together with the girls they knew from high school. they then become extremely cliquy and basically just a private girls high school. lol.

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by: -Jun 26, 2018 12:13:39 PM

Pretty sure KD has more OOS than in state girls. Actually I’m pretty sure that all OR houses are now more OOS than in state.

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by: WellJun 26, 2018 12:29:03 PM

Who says you have to branch out in college though? That’s completely arbitrary. Some people want to stay close to home for school, and so they have friends who are already around— some people may find new friend groups but I don’t think it’s so far fetched to think most will keep their HS friends.

I’m OOS myself and I’ve never understood the criticism of alabama students. We’re coming to their home. If they want to hang out with other kids from alabama at the university of alabama, cool. They already went to their state school, they’re not trying to mislead anyone about their intentions lol

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by: @ #1Jun 26, 2018 12:49:54 PM

Ranks should not be determined by the geographic spread of a house. Alpha Phi has girls from ALL OVER. Does that make them a top house? Criteria for a top house should be things that actually matter, like:

Grades
Campus involvement
Sisterhood
Likability/friendliness

Judging a house because of where their members come from is a form of racism, except based on geography instead of skin color. You think you’re better than them because of where your girls are from instead of where theirs are from! #hypocrite

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by: ActiveJun 26, 2018 12:53:20 PM

I’m a senior in one of the OR houses that is constantly criticized for being to in state. I’m from Alabama, but most of my friends in my house are from other states. There is a small group that is pretty much all alabama girls, but it’s always bothered me that my house is portrayed as only wanting in state girls.

I don’t know of anyone in my house (But I’m sure there are exceptions) who would refuse to be friends with someone based off of where they are from. It’s more about your personality and how you carry yourself.

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#2  by: yep   
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Yes, you are missing something. It really has nothing to do with the southerness of the house but rather the pulling from a minority of the PMNs. By becoming insular and not realizing that the campus has changed dramatically over the past 10 years or so, these houses are becoming irrelevant.

The campus is benefiting greatly from the regional diversity, the incoming GPA and test scores are higher and higher each year. Not all OR houses are penalized for being southern, just the ones that create 2 tiers of sisters and relegate their filler girls to second class sisters. The houses that are put down for being so in-state focused are because they pull friends, neighbors, and other connections that may be safe but are not always the best for the house. These houses have more of a high school feel, complete with cliques and openly mean girls towards their own sisters. My OR house has discussed this a lot and we are better for embracing and welcoming top quality PNMs, no matter where they are from. We do not want our house to look or feel like our high schools so we are rushing all PNMs looking for those that fit best with our values and will fit with our sisters. This is not the case for all houses that are typically put down because of being southern it is about more than geography.

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by: Southern BelleJun 26, 2018 1:01:48 PM

XO, KD and AGD have awesome grades and are extremely involved on campus in politics, clubs and volunteering. Two of the three are known for having strong sisterhoods and all three all well respected. So to say they are “becoming irrelevant” because they don’t have as many girls from North Dakota as your house has is absolutely ridiculous.

People like you are the reason a lot of southern girls want to stick with other southern girls.

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#3  by: Look in the mirror   
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I will be going through recruitment this year and I’m from Birmingham. I think it’s fine if girls want to stick closer to other girls from their city, state or region. I can’t imagine a girl from a New Jersey having much in common with a girl from Faunsdale, Alabama. No one is judging the New Row houses that seeem to pull mosty from the Northeast or the Midwest, so why do you have the right to judge ones that pull mostly from the Southeast?

I think y’all are being super judgmental of Old Row and it actually makes YOU look more narrow minded, not them!

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by: well bless your heartJun 26, 2018 12:57:59 PM

There you have it: "I can't imagine a girl from a New Jersey having much in common with a girl from Faunsdale, Alabama" This direct quote sums up why some of the insular OR houses are going down. Are there many houses lined up to take this one?

Grow up. Experience life. Meet other people. You will be shocked at how similar you can be to a girl from NJ or any other state/region. You will be amazed at how much you will grow by meeting people not like you. There are no houses that are mostly Northeast or Midwest, OR or NR, just houses that embrace all PNMs and those that exclude to their detriment. This is especially true with the incoming class at the school over 65% OOS. There are houses that rush quality girls for who they are not where they are from, and there are houses that rush girls for where they are from, quality or not.

It is cute that you think that houses that accept and welcome all quality girls are more narrow minded then houses that only accepte girls that are scared to branch out and insecure about how they measure up outside of their own small southern town (that is the feeling that comes through in your post).

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#4  by: hi   
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Sorry how does kd have a better reputation than kappa and ddd? And since when does kd have better grades than ddd? Also feel like kappa has a stronger sisterhood than kd does. Chi O and Alpha Gam haven't seen a stellar pledge class in years

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by: hmmJun 26, 2018 12:58:46 PM

I don’t think that anyone said that on this thread, but I would argue that kd has a cleaner rep and more involved/better grades rep than kappa. Both houses have the exclusive/mean/13th year of high school rep though. Tri delt has a pretty good reputation overall.

I think the point is that the point of the thread is that no house should be criticized for having a geographical focus unless they focus more on an area than getting quality girls (for instance, if a sorority wanted all AL girls and was taking QRs or girls with bad grades just because they were from Alabama).

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by: whatJun 26, 2018 1:05:50 PM

"all three of those houses have higher grades, more involvement, and cleaner reputations than kappa and most of ddd" - OP Imho it's sounds like the OP is suggesting that southern or not, KD AGD and Chi O are better in general and are only ranked lower because they have a southern majority. In reality kappa and ddd are not ranked higher because they have an out of state focus but because they're just better houses.

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by: ^^^^^^^Jun 26, 2018 2:06:48 PM

Exactly what "what" said^^^^^ they aren't typically ranked below kappa and tri delt because they're mostly southern that has nothing to do with it.......

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by: PreachJul 22, 2023 11:11:40 PM

Exactly

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#5  by: Fact   
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EVERY house has “cluster” areas where they rush a large number of girls. Girls from these areas can be just as cliquey as girls from in state.

Phi Mu: Texas, Hoover
Kappa: ATL, mountain brook/Montgomery/Mobile
Tri Delt: Huntsville, Tennessee
KD: Mountain brook/Montgomery/Mobile, NC
Chi O: Mississippi, Memphis
AGD: small town alabama
Alpha chi: Birmingham

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by: YeaJul 23, 2023 11:01:34 AM

This is pretty spot on but all OR has plenty of Bham girls

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#6  by: tbh   
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Because honestly why are people still praising Alabama tradition? Old Row should be begging for these OOS girls because they bring a lot more than anyone from the state of Alabama ever will and honestly why is Old Row still status thing here? Bama needs to get with the program and learn something from out of state great systems

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by: OmgJun 26, 2018 2:44:19 PM

“because they bring a lot more than anyone from the state of Alabama ever will”

If this is how you feel about people from the state of Alabama, then WHY DID YOU CHOOSE TO COME TO SCHOOL HERE?

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#7  by: well?   
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why do we continue to act like getting a bid from certain sororities is equivalent to becoming a debutante???? seriously!!! People don't look at sororities and think wow they have such good grades no sororities are SOCIAL clubs if you have to rely on a sorority in order to get good grades you have a rude awakening in life

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by: here we go Jun 26, 2018 1:45:44 PM

and here we have the gdi who has to bash sororities in general saying greeks are in for a "rude awakening"... no one said anything anywhere in this thread that people rely on sororities to get good grades.

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by: HmmnnnJul 23, 2023 11:26:04 AM

Don't really care about Old Row vs New Row but do know very well the power of networking. Surrounding yourself with involved people with good grades means you are making connections with people who will more likely than not, be successful in the future. These future connections may in the future mean connections to opportunities.

In general I think sororities are irrelevant after college. What is not irrelevant is the networking and connections you are making with people in college. To discount that is doing yourself a disservice if you want to be successful in your future career.

If your goal is an Mrs. degree, well being in a well thought of sorority really can't hurt you there either. LOL

At the end of the day though, Alabama houses are so large, I suspect you are going to have powerful networking opportunities wherever you go.

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#8  by: said it yourself   
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you said it yourself it's because of tradition it's not a good thing to have all Alabama girls like wow old row congrats on the 20 out of state filler girls you decided to give a bid to hahah people love to say old row is "improving" and becoming "less out of state" but we all know that is b.s this school is predominately out of state so the "status" of Old Row houses goes down year after year you should probably rush a house that will ultimately leave you with the most connections so lets see are you gonna want to have girls from all over the United States help you with connections or girls strictly from specific zip codes help you? just a thought

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by: WellJun 26, 2018 2:31:51 PM

Predominately out of state, NOT predominately out of region. The majority of students are still from the south. The only non southern state that’s a top 5 feeder to UA is California. Anyways, there’s not a single house here that is predominately Alabama girls. A little over 600 in state girls rushed last year. There are 7 old row sororities, and some of those girls went new row. That doesn’t leave enough girls for even half of every old row pledge class to be in state.

The fact is kappa, axo, ddd, kd, phi mu all want the best OOS and oor girls. Your post may have been accurate in 2010 but not anymore.

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#9  by: The answer   
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The answer you are looking for is there is nothing wrong with a sorority wanting to focus its membership on certain geographic region. The issue is that people make it out that makes them better than everybody else. Anytime someone posts a ranking on this site they automatically put the "Old Row" sororities at the top, why because they are mostly in-state girls and that is all the hometown mom's care about when you enter the their hometown country clubs. This thinking is so ingrained since birth into the girls from the various areas of the state and god forbid you try to challenge them on it.

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#10  by: V   
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How do you non-southerners not see how completely prejudice you sound? Even though the southern houses have better grades, involvement and hold more leadership positions on campus than your houses, you think yours should be ranked higher because you have some YouTube makeup girl from NJ, a tattooed up girl from Ohio or a plastic surgery obsessed girl with a 2.0 GPA from Colorado? Geography has NOTHING TO DO WITH RANKINGS.

I would take a house with 300 smart girls from AL, MS and GA over a house with 300 morons from every single state any day.

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