marriage

Just graduated and I wanna say like 3%

I'll take things that no one keeps statistics on for $500.

At least 83% . This out of this year’s graduating class in my fraternity there we only two guys that were leaving here single.

well considering that a future phi mu sophomore just got engaged...

one girl in my sorority was engaged this year.

Kinda depends on the year.

When I was a freshman almost none of the seniors in my sorority were engaged because not many of them were still in long-term relationships. But a LOT - maybe 20% - of the seniors my sophomore year were either engaged or planning to be engaged shortly after grad (usually waiting for their SO to have more money before buying the ring or whatever). I agree that it's super young (and expensive let's be real!!!) but to each their own.

A lot of the time it varies from house to house! In no way bashing anybody for their way of doing things.. if you found the one and you're ready to get engaged, that's awesome & if you aren't in that place in your life in college, that's awesome too! Both totally respectable, understandable decisions.

However, like I said, it is more common in certain houses.. some of those being:
AXO
XO
AGD

Less common but not unheard of:
AOPi
Phi Mu
DG

Rarely happens (correct me if I'm wrong please!):
KD
KKG
APhi
GPhi
DZ
DDD
ZTA
Pi Phi

also please let me know if I accidentally skipped anybody haha

Do any houses do the candlelighting ceremony for engagements or pinning? Does anyone get pinned anymore?

it's one thing to get engaged when you're a senior and about to graduate and you've been dating someone for a long time and it's another thing to get engaged when you're a sophomore and your only life experience has been a couple semesters of college. I know a girl in one of the "rarely happens" houses who got engaged first semester sophomore year and it just makes no sense to me. You're young, you're going to change a LOT over the next two years, and you can still be in a loving, committed relationship without being engaged. What's the point in being engaged for at least two years before you graduate and then get married if you'd be equally as committed without the ring? What do you have to prove? It just reads as insecure to me.

very few. and if they do they are usually seniors about to graduate.

the ones that do that aren't seniors usually knocked someone up...sorry not sorry